You have walked the road, no matter how fast or slow, and finally become life

Walk too fast, easy to fall; climb too high, easy to fall.

Only by putting each step into practice, can you walk the "road" that belongs to you.

According to their rhythm, step by step, loosely and moderately walk.

Not too fast, not too slow, can also reach the end, and may even become the final winner.

1. The desire for speed is not achieved

Remember to do warm-up exercises before exercise.

Fear is a little inattention to the injury.

The road of life is also the same, not well prepared in advance, blindly rushing forward, and then fast is useless, will only make their fall more miserable.

Some people have not yet learned to walk, they are eager to run, and it is easy to fall.

Just like some people learn a little fur to rush to the classroom, think they are very smart, but do not know is to reveal their shortcomings in front of others.

Let people see the bottom of your cards early, and then want to win, I'm afraid it's very difficult.

As the saying goes, "speed is not enough," the heart is anxious to eat hot bean curd, a desire for speed, but easily the slowest.

Only be prepared, slow down, down to earth, to walk the rugged and difficult road of life.

Act steadily, to get twice the result with half the effort.

2. Straightforward and fast-talking hurt people's hearts

A lot of straightforward people, but know that "wrong" will change very little.

Many people say sorry, "I'm sorry, I'm too straightforward." But the heart does not think, think "this is yourself, nothing to change".

But do not think, straightforward and quick to offend people, the loss of how many opportunities, there is no intention to say the words hurt how many people.

I have a friend who speaks very directly.

She does not like will directly say no, regardless of how others look, familiar with the people are tolerated her, and think she is not bad, just her mouth poisoned a little.

But there are times when you can't stand it, that year someone moving, it was a very happy event, but she arrived, not to mention congratulations, and criticized the design of the house.

This is not good, that is not good, a meal, the house owner's face is black, directly with her quarrel, how to persuade people around can not persuade, and finally fell apart, friends can not do.

Do people, who adhere to the "straight talk", and do not know how to reflect, not change, will always be planted in the same pit, or want to climb out?

Words out, think about it, the mouth does not hurt people, is wisdom.

3. Fast in order, slow in powerful

Life is not fast is good, nor is it slow, but to be fast and slow, rhythmically take every step.

Don't always think about chasing others, to others' speed to demand their own, each has their way to go, and how to have a unified standard.

A life spent on others, to old age will be easy to regret.

It is important to know that abandoning your life to chase others, even if you succeed will not be happy.

Just like feelings, not the best best for yourself, but what you want is the best

Other people are better than others, even if they get it will not become their own, only what they want, efforts to get is their own.

In the past, I have seen some people chasing after fame and fortune, sinking into desire, unable to extricate themselves, thinking they are chasing success, but in the end, what they get is a belly full of emptiness.

Fate is full of misfortune, not everything can be as it should be.

Some people do the emperor, but only want to be a carpenter; some people do the carpenter, but look up to the emperor; each has their pursuit, each has their wants, and finally how many people succumb to reality, to take a passive road?

However, as Alex Hill said, "If you can't do what you love, you have to love what you do."

The more passive path, the more you have to learn to love, to take things as they come, and to help yourself grow.

Walk your own pace, not be influenced by the outside world, fast in order, slow in powerful, step by step fall into place, to achieve a better version of yourself.