Keep these three points in mind when dealing with others

Austrian psychologist Adler once said that all the troubles of human beings come from interpersonal relationships.

And the people who live fully, have mastered these three tips: suitably soft, reasonable play the fool, always awake.

When we were younger, we were used to talking and being aggressive.

After having a certain experience, I gradually realized that there is not so much truth in life.

Love or friendship, learn to compromise, appropriate soft, to make a relationship warm for a long time.

In a relationship, winning posture, losing feelings, is the world's most lossmaking business.

Over the course of life, in a relationship, understanding is always more important than being right, tolerance is always more important than winning.

Shakespeare once said, "To play the fool well requires genius, not merely insight into men and who they are, but timing."

The world is proud of being smart, but know how to play the fool reasonably, the real test of a person's wisdom and mind.

When I was young, I once went to a dinner party with a leader.

At that time, there was a young man of 20 years old, who bragged loudly at the wine table, opening his mouth was which big guy he knew and what prize he had won.

This young man I have also seen, is a cooperation company just entered the small staff of humble, more ridiculous is, he blew many awards, is nothing at all.

My heart is not happy, is getting up to expose him, but the leader quietly pulled my skirt beckoned me to sit down.

As for himself, he not only watched the young man's performance with a smile, but also said a few words from time to time.

On the way back, I asked him, how can you get used to such bluffs?

The leader said, you see him around smile, but is to make a living, let him go, the adult world, not easy.

Later experience gradually grow, I found that those who are truly transparent, often know how to think for others, willing to give people steps down.

The so-called high emotional intelligence, know when to silence, reasonable play dumb.

A truly intelligent person is never eager to knock others down and lift himself up, but is willing to lower his profile and show kindness.

As we step out into the world, we shed our ignorance and begin to understand the rules of the real world.

The relationship between people is nothing more than a process of value exchange.

Here's a question: What are some sobering truths about life?

Some people say, don't trust others to be your salvation, live to be your own savior.

I know an executive friend who started his own business in his 40s. He never thought that in the next two or three years, he would not only lose all his money, but also owe millions of dollars in debt.

People who had seemed to be on good terms with him stayed away for fear that their friends would ask them to lend them money.

He went to some partners in his former unit, but was also turned away.

In desperation, the friend had to sell a favorite house to fill the hole.

After a few years he was back on his feet again and his business was growing bigger and bigger.

I asked friends, experience ups and downs, can the world feel chill?

My friend said no.

He said that when he was in a high position before, he always felt that he was very powerful, and everywhere he went was a call to arms.

After starting their own business, I realized that the so-called contacts were just icing on the cake. When it came to the critical moment, I could only count on myself.

My friend's words also touched me.

As we step out into the world, we shed our ignorance and begin to understand the rules of the real world.

The relationship between people is nothing more than a process of value exchange.

When you are weak, it is normal to get cold eyes, when you are strong enough to hold an umbrella for others, others will naturally pave the way for you.

When you are weak, it is normal to get cold eyes, when you are strong enough to hold an umbrella for others, others will naturally pave the way for you.

So don't look to others when you are in trouble, live to be your salvation.

Don't expect others to pull a low, to silently precipitation secretly.

A strong sign that a person has become, do not take networking seriously, but regardless of the peaks and valleys, can be alone.