Instead of complaining, we should change

Life, like a river, whether the tide is flat or reefs ahead, you are only allowed to go forward, not backward. From crying and crying after a fall, to running with a proud smile on their face, children who do not experience a fall will never learn to walk

On the road to success, there must be flowers, there are thorns; there is laughter, there are tears; there are dreams, and of course, there are dreams broken ...... life's road will always have many potholes, and after the fall, and each complaint and resentment, will stall your pace, and each acceptance and change, will inspire you to go forward.

Just graduated Miss Su from a company doing copywriting, the salary is not high, but she is serious about doing everything. From the moment she stepped into the company, with an attitude of learning, she is careful to pay attention everywhere, and is determined to do the best job. Others do not work overtime, she adds; others do not want to do the dirty work, but she does. Whether it is minutes of meetings, leadership speeches, event programs, or press releases, there is little workplace experience, Miss Su wants their efforts.

But her efforts did not attract the attention of the boss, on the contrary, it made her colleagues resentful. They think Miss Su is too much of a show-off, a person to complete the work of the entire department, does not put the seniors in the eyes, there is no team spirit, and "repeatedly does not change". Slowly, people began to denigrate her behind her back, isolating her at work, bullying her, and repeatedly snitching on her, her supervisor also considered her incompetent.

After the two-month probationary period, Miss Su was called to the office of the vice president of personnel, the vice president of personnel said to her, for business, the most important thing is the team spirit, if everyone thinks you can not, it means that you are not suitable for the company, especially in the private sector, every penny must be spent on the blade, such as Miss Su, not suitable to work out.

Miss Su was said silly, she did not know what she did wrong, not to mention her efforts to get this kind of evaluation. But she did not get angry, smiled and said, "You say I am not suitable to come out to work in your opinion, it does not mean that my ability is so!"

The vice president of personnel was also not polite, he said that any company does not need Miss Su such a love of the limelight, and any team does not need Miss Su as such a rat turd.

In the face of the Vice President of Personnel's difficulties, Miss Su has remained calm, she said she respects his views, but no matter what he said, Miss Su believes in her ability, but also believes that she is serious. And, very formally announced that, as of today, she resigned!

After resigning, Miss Su was not affected by the former company, not to mention that she doubted her ability. On the contrary, she began to take stock of why her hard work is denigrated. Accused of not having a team spirit? It is through this resignation that Miss Su understands that not every team is suitable for their own ideals.

After that, Miss Su started in sales, countless people called liars, and people blank stares, at the supervisor, again and again saying useless. Each time frustrated, Ms. Su calmly analyzes the reasons, summarize the shortcomings, and then optimistically moves forward. In a few years, she became a brand of regional gold sales, bringing out dozens of elite sales teams.

I believe that many people have encountered such a situation, scolded by the customer is a pig, by colleagues who said no team spirit. Sometimes, because of the lack of ability, is still not clear about their pivot point in the team. In the face of a colleague's misunderstanding, no need to rush to refute, no one will misunderstand you for no reason, unless it is your behavior that has harmed their interests. When you encounter insults, first of all, be calm, so that you can see your shortcomings, to see the causes and opportunities behind the insults.

In the face of blows, do not stumble or grumble, but calmly analyze the reasons for their failure, find the right problem, correct the problem, fall, get up and continue to bravely go on, why fear no flowers and applause?

Each team has its temperament, some teams are suitable for business, and some teams are suitable for mixed life. For you, the choice of a kind of team determines your future survival, as well as the distance between the ideal.

When something goes wrong with the team and you don't stand up for yourself or leave bravely, but sit there and complain, the road will not be under your feet, but only in front of you. The so-called success is just one choice after another, one falls, forward, falls again, and forward again.

On the road to success, difficulties and setbacks are essential, every time you think deeply after a fall, every time you get up and move forward will help you cut through the thorns, trample the difficulties underfoot, and close the distance to your dreams. Each fall after the understanding is growth; countless falls after the understanding are a success!