I Really Do Love You

Over the years I have met and talked with many people who boldly declared that they indeed loved the person they were with but for some reason their love came across like the roar of a scary dinosaur. Yet, right behind the roar they would say often with tear and a very fragile heart, "I Love You".

Let's take a quick look at love, Love is often viewed as a physical attraction or maybe just a good time. But love is more of the value we place on the person you care about. The more you love them the more your heart values them and the more losing them becomes an option put far from the table and your list of things to do. Your sole concern now is keeping them because to your heart, they are a true Cullinan Diamond and worth every thing to your happiness.

Love and "Respect" are one in the same. Love and respect have been together for ages and simply refuse to separate. If you are a beautiful woman and you are dreaming or planning to get married, look for this tell tale mark of love call respect. It works both ways so if you are a gentleman looking for the love of your life look for it.

Over the centuries of time respect has been found to be the proof of the authenticity of a love that would be true no matter how it was served up, no matter the glamour it was served in. True respect never shows up when "LOVE" is missing and it never stays when love is gone.

Most men love having a beautiful woman on their arm but love is not always in the equation. No matter how pretty she is at some point her friends and family will see her disrespected in some way. The same is true with very nice men. He has the money, the car, the house but the love is missing. A woman watching him says "I wish I had a man like that" while the woman who has him says "I am So Sick of Him". One guy sees the pretty girl and says Wow!!! I would love to make her my wife while the guy who has her only see her as someone to roar at.

Love is truly a powerful thing. It can and will service how you act and talk for sure. This is how your friends and family know something has changed about you. When you meet that special person that takes your heart to this all so special place, HOLD ON to them. You will find their love to be a Soft place in a Hard World when you need it most.