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I'm Dating Someone New But I Miss My Ex (I'm Not Over My Ex And I'm In A Relationship)

Are you in a situation where you're saying I'm dating someone new but I miss my ex. It's difficult when a break up occurs. Sometimes, one person isn't ready to let go yet and they live with a constant desire to get back with their ex. There's nothing worse than having to say I'm not over my ex and I'm in a relationship.

By Kelly LaceyPublished 2 years ago 5 min read
I'm Dating Someone New But I Miss My Ex (I'm Not Over My Ex And I'm In A Relationship)
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What if one day you mentioned the word, "I still love my ex", can you try to figure out what will happen next? There are lots of questions regarding this issue. After all the bad things such as problems and misunderstandings happened in your relationship, you really mention that you love your ex. Well, if that could be you problem you better think twice for you to avoid regrets.

When someone says the line, "I still love my ex," this means that there are possibilities to get back with your previous girlfriend or boyfriend. But, what does "I still love my ex" mean? Does it mean you want him or her to get back in your life? Well, there are many questions for you to answer before making decisions. Yes, you still love your ex, but, what if he or she is happy with his or her previous one? Do you think your love is enough to get back with you ex? Or you better leave this kind of relationship and forget the love that you feel.

Saying the line," I still love my ex" does not mean you want to get her back. It's only a kind of emotion simply because you remember the greatest memories with your ex. Yes, you will get her back as a friend or as a lover. You have the right to choose. Your decision can give a huge impact for your present situation. What will happen if you choose him or her as a friend? And what if I choose her or him as a lover and get back with me? If you choose to get your ex back then be ready for some risks and other factors that will affect your relation. However, if you choose her or him as a friend, he or she will treat you as a special person. Please keep in mind that true friends are hard to find. Therefore, choosing your ex as a friend can work. Since you have been together in the past years or month, it is better to choose her or him as a friend.

Like the above advice, saying the line," I still love my ex" also means that you want to try the previous relationship again and again. If you are with each other, it will happen naturally and you don't have to force yourself in the things that will put you at risk. When both of you decide to try again then be ready for the actions from both of you. Friends, you don't have to force yourself when it comes to love because it will happen naturally and time will tell when it will be happen.

No matter what kind of relationship it was, as a friend or as a love, you have to consider the feeling from both of you. If this was a marriage that failed then seek for marriage counseling. This will build a strong relationship and creates way for a relation to succeed. Perhaps, there were mistakes from both of you which were incapable of handling it in your own. If you had been getting counseling before, it is better to find someone different than your present relationship. So instead of saying "I still love my ex" you will now say "I'm in love".

Some Simple Ideas How to Get Back With Your Ex

If you still love your ex, then getting her or him back is the most important thing for you to do. Some people are just not ready to end a relationship especially if what they had was really special. This is especially true when there is too much history with the relationship. It may have started as a dating relationship that ended in a marriage. That's just too much to loose if it will just end in a divorce. If you don't want to let go of it yet, you must find ways on how to restore your failed relationship.

During the course of your relationship, I'm pretty sure love was there. Mistakes have been made and you can't turn back the hands of time and erase them but the love that you and your partner once had can still be brought back. Time can heal the wounds and after having the chance to consider things, you can both meet each other again and talk. But avoid hurrying things up and try getting back together at once.

You have to analyze what really went wrong with the relationship, why the romance was interrupted. Once you figured it out, try to resolve it at once and move on. It would be so easy to start all over if the past issues are resolved once and for all. If you failed to resolve it, getting back to your ex would be very difficult.

The break up may have been caused by an attitude you both possess. Maybe you just can't handle your partner's behavior anymore, or vice versa. Whatever it is, find a solution on how to solve it. But making someone change is not easy, so you have to be the one to start the change if you want your ex to make necessary changes as well.

But in case the break up was caused by your infidelity, then that would be really difficult to fix. You broke her or his trust and getting it back will not be easy. You caused your partner heartbreak, so you really have to show her you have changed and you can be trusted once again. Seek the help of marriage counseling or a couple's therapy in order to help you with this problem.

When you want to get back with your ex, avoid looking like you are needy and desperate. You may be giving your ex a wrong idea that you're giving her power over you. You have to be confident and make sure you know what you are doing. If you show that you're confident, she or he might even find you attractive once more, and the chances of getting back together are much better.

Be confident with what you are doing. Make sure you are doing the right things. Consider really well if you will be happy again in case you get back together or things might just turn bad even more. This way all your efforts will not be put to waste.

Do You Truly Wish You Can Get Back Together with Your Ex?

Relationship is a fragile bond that when it's broken, the process of mending can be much more difficult than creating it in the first place. Sometimes it's an extremely difficult task to sort out all the problems and get back together with your ex. No matter how many times you come up with different reasons and approaches, your ex does not seem to change the decision to leave you. If you’d like to get your hands on a step-by-step method for changing your ex's decision about the breakup, click here!

Let me show you exactly what to do to salvage your relationship and rekindle the lost love one more time…even if you're the only one trying…and even if the situation seems hopeless. Head over now to Get Your Ex Back Secrets

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