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I Cheated On My Girlfriend and I Want Her Back (I Cheated On My Girlfriend And She Hates Me)

Ok, so you've found yourself in a situation where your relationship looks like it's over, but you're saying to yourself I cheated on my girlfriend and I want her back. Of course you want her back but what the heck do you do? If you're in a situation where you're saying I cheated on my girlfriend and she hates me, then this might be the most important thing you've ever read.

By Lyra NoahPublished 2 years ago 6 min read
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Do you think you were made for her? Do you think you have improved and ready to win her love all over again? Do you know how to keep her happy and keep her with you once you reconciled?

Yes, as you already know, holding onto a relationship is not a walk in the park and getting back in it after you've cheated isn't either.

"But why do we see some women accepted their boyfriend back even when their partner has cheated?"

Now of course you probably heard that somewhere and beginning to picture yourself to be this guy, wouldn't it be amazing if you could be this guy who could win your girlfriend back after you cheated?

Here is some advice on getting back together from women for men, starting here will give you a better sense which you can use to transform yourself becoming a better lover that would help more than to just win her back but helping you to keep her forever. And as you read to the end of this article, little by little you'll realized how important it is to become a better lover.

Just be yourself

Most women believes, many men don't feel that they are good enough to win the attention of their former lover even if she's not dating anyone, so they refused to put on a show.

But the truth is, a confident man is the sexiest beast around and most women feel themselves to be secured having a confident, non-arrogant man besides them.

Have you ever noticed that some of the jerk guys out there somehow managed to stay in their relationships, or perhaps you are familiar with a girl(could be one of your friends), that's so beautiful but end up with a guy that you think you're worth better? That is because they display a level of confidence that is more attractive to women than physical looks.

Basically, having the courage to approach your ex girlfriend is the first thing she would consider you to be a man of high confidence. But it comes with a carefully thread plan (so you'll pulling her even closer), which I will talk about it in a moment.

Little things matters

I tend to agree with women on this (perhaps you too!), we often forgo on the little things. We guys often thought the 'grander' the better.

Stay with me because this means for a change even if you agree or disagree.

For instance, offer to take her car in for an oil change or giving her a bag of Jelly Bellies (her favorite flavors) from time to time is way better than spending you money buying her gifts. Of course, there are many ways of doing this and you can start by learning to listen to her.

Can you imagine how she would feel if you listen to her? While you are having conversations with her, by giving a little extra attention to her words, lets her feel she being highly valued.

It is the little things which add up to a lasting relationship.

Why is it important not to compare her with other women, and how you can not do so?

We just can't stop ourselves from looking away even for a moment can't we?

While that is being our genes, most women think that you are comparing her to the woman you're looking at. Although some women might just let it go, but they tend to keep it inside and feel emotionally threatened especially if you had cheated her before.

Women don't understand or perhaps refuse to accept the whole concept of "the day I stop looking is the day I die." This comes from the biological drive for monogamy in women.

If you are not aware how women deal with the complexity of their emotions it is good for you to understand when women are hoping for a man with whom they can live forever, they can't handle it if being compared to other women. That's how evolution designed them. As you come to understand of how important it is for her not to be compared, it is a good idea to minimize the ogling, especially when she's around.

Sense of humor

While men list good looks at the top of the things they need in a woman, women on the other hand list a man's sense of humor as the top priority. So, if you want the relationship to last, make an effort to keep her laughing. As a matter of fact, many experts reconciliation believes sense of humor is one of the most important tools which can open up ex girlfriends after a break up.

Now I understand, perhaps being funny is one of your weakness that you are willing to put an effort to overcome. Wouldn't you? As you are considering overcoming this, let me assure you there's a way you can master this fast.

Having common interests

While it is great to have personal interests to spend some time on your own, it still helps when you take an interest in a standing passion of hers. If this means you should develop a common interest for foreign films, so be it because this proves that you appreciate her interests and this is rare in a guy.

Why grooming is important?

While your ex girlfriend may put less importance when it comes to your looks, they would prefer if you makes an attempt to look good. So, shave on weekends. As you start making this a habit you will notice she starts to feel better and better having you around. And for your information, most women loves the aroma of men's after shave (that if she doesn't have any allergy).

There are many men's fashion magazines out there which you might already know, so make it your favorite read. In short, don't get sloppy just because you've broken up with her. Looking good certainly sends her a positive signal that you've changed.

Can you integrate with her friends and family?

Why is this critically important? As she is considering taking you back, she will depend on her social circle to validate you once again especially after the passion has ended. Now as you begin to realize the importance of her circle of friends, it is great to make an effort to makeup with her girlfriends and impress her parents instead of just focusing solely on your girlfriend. As a reminder for you, a woman relies on her social network to validate her relationship choices.

Have you tried to keep everything fresh?

Can you recall at the very beginning of your relationship where everything is new from the types of dates you arrange to the way you kiss. And after a while, these things become a boring routine.

Now as you are aware of your relationship has fallen into a rut, you can make an effort to shake things up. Trying something new every now and then will go a long way to keeping your relationship healthy once you get back together in the future.

So, as you draw to the conclusion of this article, you might find these advices are useful and at the same time it's like too much to ask from you.

Now, as you are holding on to these advices and the thoughts you might have, if I did not mention it earlier, though getting back together is not a piece of cake, it is achievable because there's always a second chance.

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