How to prepare for your first date online

Online dating has revolutionized the dating scene. If you have ever been on a first date, then you are probably familiar with the excitement that comes with it. The first encounter with a person face-to-face is a nerve-wracking experience that can be traumatic after online dating. The anticipation of first dates is always accompanied by excitement, uncertainty, and some worry. There are many questions and scenarios running through your mind in a constant loop. These feelings may be amplified when you meet someone after online dating. Even though you have a connection with someone online, it is quite another to meet them in person.

These are some tips for those who are looking to meet their first online partner.

View the room

It is important to learn how the other person feels about you when you first meet. For clues, pay attention to your date's body language and demeanour. You may feel more comfortable with your date if you already feel you are getting along well with them and you have mutual permission to do so.

Be you

It might seem like dating in the twenty first century is a contest, even though it has been this way for a long time. We compare our worth to others, which makes it easier to learn from and copy others rather than to forge our own path. Dating shouldn't be a contest between winners and losers. Finding someone you can share a relationship with, someone you can care about and who can make both of you happy. You can only make it happen if you are true to yourself, and allow your authentic self to shine through.

Be well

It is important to make a first impression. Your first impression of someone is made in seconds. This impression can be based on how you look and act, which is often negative. A great way to make a good first impression is to smile. Smiles are a sign of friendship and happiness. You can learn it and practice it. You will feel happier if you smile more. Positive energy is everything! You should also take the time to dress appropriately for the event, while still sticking to your personal style. You shouldn't dress in shorts and t-shirts to a cocktail party, just as you wouldn’t wear a suit to a cafe.

Listen to your whole body.

Talking about ourselves is something we all love to do. But don't assume your date will find you as interesting as you believe. It sends the wrong signals by making it all about yourself. Listen attentively to what you hear and then respond accordingly. Your body language should reflect your attention. Don't scroll through your phone.

Feel confident

People like to be around self-assured people. Your body language can reveal a lot about you to your date. You can boost your confidence by practicing power posing before you present. You can trick your brain into believing you are more confident by standing in a traditional position with your hands on your hips.

Ice breakers

You wouldn't go to a job interview without researching the company beforehand. So why shouldn't a first date? Make a list of questions that you would like to ask your first date, and also some interesting responses to any other questions. You will make the first date seem like an interview and set alarm bells for those watching. Remember that first date questions can be just as important as first date answers. On a first date, it is important to not only focus on the topic of the conversation but also to listen attentively and make the other person feel comfortable. Avoid sensitive topics like sex and money. It's not a good idea for a first date to ask about other people's earnings and the reasons why their relationship ended.

Don't wait too long to get your first date.

Even if the relationship started on an app, it should not be allowed to last too long. Texting can give you an impression of another person. To truly get to know someone, you need to pay more attention than words on a screen. Facial expressions, body language and tone of voice all play a vital role in getting to know them.

Tell your friend where you'll be

It is smart to be safe when you go on a date with someone new. You can ensure your safety by telling a family member or friend whereabouts. While it's okay to wish for the best, you should also be ready for the worst. Before meeting someone in person, it is important to do background research.

Conclusion thoughts

You have been talking to this person online for some time and have realized that you share a lot of things. This was your first contact with the other person. You will find it easy to talk about these issues for a long period of time. These topics will be of mutual interest so it will be easy for you to have a conversation with each other. This is your chance to get to know each other better and to decide if you would like to spend more time together. Don't be discouraged if the first date doesn't go as planned.