How To Make Your Ex Think About You Constantly (How To Make Him or Her Think About You After A Break Up)

You think about your ex all the time, and you want to get them back, because you cannot ever get them off of your mind! Now, think about this for a minute, all you ever think about is your ex?

What if there was a way to make your ex think about you, in the same way? Well, there is, and all you have to do, is use a few subconscious psychological tricks to get your ex to think about you all the time. Read on to find out how you can get your ex back....

Subliminal messaging -

Subliminal messaging is one easy way to make your ex subconsciously want to think about you all of the time. The subconscious is NOT controlled by your ex, and in fact it is the part of your mind that you have no control over. But it can be influenced with the right techniques, and once something goes into the subconscious, it will always circulate around, causing one to feel a certain emotion constantly.

It is the reason why you can feel in love and really happy for a long time, and it is the same reason why you can also feel depressed all the time. Those thoughts float around and then are interpreted into your actions and feelings. Likewise, you want your ex to start feeling for you again, and missing you.

The first step - The first way to get your ex to think about you all the time, is to appear to have moved on. Once you do this, your ex will instantly be thinking that you have forgotten them. This subconsciously sends your ex the message and feeling of abandonment and fear of loss. Your ex will fear losing you, and this will begin to circulate around in your ex's mind.

The second step - If your ex were to believe that you are dating again, he/she would instantly have old feelings revived. Your ex once had you, and you two were for each other. You were not with other people, but should your ex think that you ARE with other people, he/she will suddenly subconsciously think that they should get you back.

You see, a chain reaction starts, once they find out you are dating again, because your ex will feel jealous and envious almost instantly. This is because they will link you as being their prize possession from before, and coupled with the fear of loss, your ex will not be able to help but think about you all the time now.

To make your ex think that you are dating again, all you have to do is simply send your ex a fake text, making it look like it was meant for someone else.

What happens now -

These thoughts will turn into action, as your ex will try to expel them. In order to expel the feeling your ex now has, his mind will command him to seek answers and attention once again from you. This is just a natural human nature, to seek approval from someone, when we believe their standards are higher than ours.

We learn this from a very early age, such as childhood, where we want to be accepted by our parents, teachers and friends. Likewise, if we feel as if they are not accepting us, we act out, much like how children get jealous of their siblings when a parent praises one or gives attention to one more than the other.

This works the same way for your ex, where he/she will want to have your approval again, and will become jealous that you are dating again. In the end, your ex will try and get you back, as these messages and feelings circulate and worsen for your ex, so much so that the only way to become satisfied again, would be to get you back.

When Getting Back Your Ex is Your Number One Goal

Let's face it. Getting back your ex seems right now to be the biggest obstacle you've ever faced. It seems like an impossible feat while at the same time is something that you desperately want. Add to that the fact that you're questioning everything you read and hear about how to do it and your skepticism is giving your ex more and more time to find someone else. That's not what you want.

If you want to get your ex back, there are certain things you must avoid and certain things you need to do in order to make it happen. The problem is figuring out what those things are. We have all known couples that split up only to later get back together so we know it can happen. We just don't know how.

The first thing you need to do is start at the beginning. I know, I know. You want some magic pill that will make everything all better but that's not going to happen. It's going to take some work on your part and it's also going to involve some difficulty but you can do it. Acceptance is the first step.

Accept the fact that the relationship is over. Doing this will allow you to put aside the feelings of hopelessness and dread and allow you to concentrate on getting back your ex. Until you do this, you won't be able to concentrate on the problem and how to repair it. Focusing on the hurt of the break up will not help you bring them back.

Now it's time to be honest with yourself. I mean really honest. The fact is, getting your ex back is about attraction. What I mean is that your job at this point is to make yourself more attractive to your ex than anyone else they might meet or currently know. When that happens, you're home free. Until then you need to learn everything you can about the attraction factors. HINT: It's about more than physical looks.

You also need a firm foundation on which to rebuild your broken relationship. By this I mean you need to have a plan of action. Without a plan you won't know what to do when and you could end up making things worse rather than better.

The bottom line is that getting back your ex is no where near impossible but you need to be sure you are doing the right things rather than the wrong things. That's your biggest obstacle.

Do You Truly Wish You Can Get Back Together with Your Ex?

Relationship is a fragile bond that when it's broken, the process of mending can be much more difficult than creating it in the first place. Sometimes it's an extremely difficult task to sort out all the problems and get back together with your ex. No matter how many times you come up with different reasons and approaches, your ex does not seem to change the decision to leave you. If you’d like to get your hands on a step-by-step method for changing your ex's decision about the breakup, click here!

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