How to Get Men to Chase You

Dating in today's society is a complex cliche of spoiled men and broken boundaries. Women have a tendency of being impatient by seeking quantity over quality. We need to start taking additional time to build a sense of who these men are. We need to stop acting so desperate for men. Emotional desperation is our worst enemy when dating.

We need to work on the foundation of our emotional being. Emotional strength is something we need to recognize our own self-worth. Validation through men is something that creates setbacks in establishing solid relationships where the man chases the woman and is worthy of her. By taking our time and focus on our awareness of the men we are interested in.

High caliber men know the hard to get games that women like to play. A desperate woman plays these games. The difference comes from living life, not just walking the walk. Establishing yourself as a high caliber lady has a mission in life, with a passion that is dedicated to whatever that mission is.

Since men are very visual, we need to dress for yourselves with clothing that we enjoy yet understand that men want to find a woman that is well put together. Understand that there is no singular formula for what men want. Confidence is key and looking the best you can is more important than anything else. Most men want feminity. It doesn't matter what as long as you are portraying yourself as feminine. Men want a woman with feminine energy.

There are 10 keys to body language that will give you an advantage when it comes to men. We all know there are always women out there that have men flock to them, here are some simple reasons why. This is

1. Natural hip swing when you walk. Don't stomp your feet. Don't slump over. Don't overextend. Walk naturally, casually, and let your hips swing. It will draw focus and attention to your hips. Don't go for a diva walk, walk with a natural feminine hip swing.

2. Natural setting position. Open body language. Not too rigid and upright. Too much attitude makes you appear aggressive and more masculine. No one wants to approach aggressiveness. Be neutral. Don't hunch over. When you make yourself smaller, it makes you look insecure and weak. Don't swivel your head and look around all over. It looks desperate.

3. Smile. If you can't smile with your mouth, smile with your eyes. Don't overdramatize. It's not sexy to be theatrical. Men love a woman that smiles. Smiling too much makes you look easy and desperate. Smiles show kindness, which is very alluring to men.

4. Touching your hair. Gently drag a little attention to your hair. Tucking your hair behind your ear is attractive to men. Don't use overdramatic actions. It should be a very gentle motion. Don't play with your hair and don't do it too frequently.

5. Physical Contact. We bond with people through physical touch. Don't get clingy and hang onto him. Small touches of two seconds maximum and remove your hand. Use light touches and be soft, subtle, and sensual. The safest bet is to do this while you are talking, not him.

6. Touching yourself on the forearm gently while talking draws attention to your body without being vulgar. A gentle touch on yourself triggers a man to think about what it would be like for you to touch him.

7. Communication. Start thinking very sensual thoughts in his presence. Don't act on them, just sit, and think about those sensual and sexual thoughts. Men do pick up on that energy very easily. He will pick it up subconsiencely. You are planting a seed of thought and nothing more.

8. Touching your chest. This doesn't mean to grab your boobs. It means placing a hand to your chest in shock or awe. Natural, quickly, and gently.

9. Tone of our voice. You need to find a balance between meek and aggressive. Soft-spoken and firm toned. Be aware of the tone you place on your tone. Practice and be aware of your own voice.

10. Do everything with balance. Tone up if needed. Tone down if needed. We can all be a little more fine-tuned. It's all about finding your personal feminine energy.