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How to Date Colombian Women: A Step-by-Step Guide

The cheat sheet you never knew YOU needed.

By Andrea MolinaPublished 2 years ago 5 min read
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Latinas are considered by many men as among the most desirable partners. Their desirability is further enhanced by their passion and loyalty to the people that matter most to them.

It can be difficult to date these women because they are less likely to be impressed by superficial things in life. If you want to succeed at dating them, you will need to try various approaches and strategies.

When it comes to dating Colombian women, there are quite a few things you need to be aware of. It’s high time for you to get yourself acquainted with the Colombian dating scene.

So how exactly does dating go in Colombia?

Physical attraction

You found a Latina that caught your eye, so you took the initiative to approach her. To your delight, she seems to take a liking to you as well.

A person's appearance is the first thing people notice. It’s hard not to when it’s the only thing you know about them.

Latinas are tedious when it comes to their looks. To them, how you present yourself outside is a reflection of who you are inside. If you wear neat and well-pressed clothes, it gives the impression that you are a tidy person.

Attraction isn’t always about looks. Sometimes, it’s how a person puts themselves out there. Hygiene and good grooming, for one, are what amplify a man’s attractiveness even more.

It’s hard to resist the pull of physical attraction. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with being allured by a person’s looks — it helps a ton in the dating scene.

Getting to Know Each Other

You seem to have hit it off, and you're now messaging each other constantly. You enjoy each other’s company so much that a moment without them feels like an eternity.

You can tell she's eager to get to know you just as much as you are. First thing in the morning, you check your phone for any messages from her. Even when you are out at work or with friends, she always seems to be in your mind.

It’s obvious that you’re itching to know more about her.

Fortunately for you, it wouldn’t take that long. Things run differently in the Latin dating scene. When two people only have eyes for each other, there’s already an assumption that you two are an item. That way, you can enjoy each other's presence without a care in the world.

People won’t be bothering you about your relationship status. The only thing that may bother you, however, are the questions about marriage and children.

It might seem way too early for that, but that’s Latin culture for you.

Exclusively Dating

Putting up labels isn't really a huge thing in Latin dating culture. You’ll know you are exclusively dating when you’re their plus one at family gatherings and parties.

The more you spend time with them, the more you get to know the different sides of them that you weren’t able to see. Little by little, you slowly develop deep feelings for each other. It’s not exactly love yet, but you’re getting there.

This is the most critical time of your dating life.

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Couples exchange "I love you" so frequently that it slowly loses its meaning. They don’t realize the weight of these words and say them casually like it’s the weather.

Before you say those three words, you have to be certain that you truly love her — and not because you are exclusively dating.

You can take all the time that you want to know each other. There is also a lot of time for you to figure out your feelings, so no need to rush.

Seeing Each Other’s Real Sides

This is the stage where you slowly show each other’s hidden sides. You still have a lot to learn about your partner, no matter how much you love each other.

Back then, you weren’t sure if this side of yours would sit well with her. But now that you feel comfortable with each other, you are slowly showing your relaxed side.

This is when you start to feel you are ready to open up to your partner. You open up to them about your struggles, your past, and even the parts of yourself that you are not so proud of.

You don’t care about losing face or whatnot. You have full trust in your partner to accept you for who you are.

In return, your partner tells you all about their personal life as well. Just like you, she tells you all about the important things that you should know about her.

This stage is when Latinas show their most vulnerable selves. They are entrusting their heart with you — you should take it as a great honor.

Long-Term Commitment

Things start to settle down between you two, and you start sharing the same long-term plans. It’s hard for you to imagine a future without your Latina partner. She knows you are like no other — nothing could compare to the bond that you share.

You’ve also noticed that everyone around you has started to see you two as a sort of “married couple”. You are a package deal at this point. And you don’t mind in the slightest if you are included in whatever plans her family has.

Whenever you make a life-changing decision, you always put her into consideration. It’s as though you can’t imagine life without her.

This is only the beginning of a lifetime partnership — one that could have you in it.

Meet your Future Wife in Colombia

Men are looking for love abroad for a variety of reasons - mainly because it is getting more and more difficult to find a partner in their home country.

Sometimes, it is hard to see the world through the eyes of someone from a different culture. A persistent man seeking love, however, won't be hindered by these cultural differences.

So if a partner is something you seriously want, join a Singles’ Tour. What do you have to lose? Happiness is on the horizon, and, in this case, it’s overseas.

Andrea Molina,Professional Matchmaker and Dating Consultant for Colombian Woman

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