How to Avoid Marriage Intervention

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Here is something that most people will not share with you. Why?

Because as a Divorce Coach and Mentor, I have noticed that many parents fall into the same common issue: we don’t know how to marry and we certainly don’t know how to divorce either. It is not something we are taught. Yet, it is something that we NEED to know in order to “maturely and methodically” decide whether to stay married or get divorced.

Having marriage problems can be daunting. Yet, there are solutions.

Do you want to know the secret to avoiding marriage intervention?

Do you want to know the secret to avoiding having to go to a therapist when things have exploded, when matters have gone way out of control?

It is very important to have goals that are aligned between you and your spouse and you and your significant other and make sure that you’re always aligned.

When you want to achieve anything else in life- whether it be a weight goal, work goal, career goal or love goal, you always analyze, look and review your goals on a regular basis to ensure that you are on the right path towards what it is that you desire.

So why don’t we do the same thing with marriage? Why do we not have marriage goals?

Simple answer is that no one taught us that we should or could do that in order to save what is truly important to us- our marriage.

What are marriage goals? It is when you and your spouse sit down together in a quiet environment and individually write down what you want from the marriage. After careful thought, you share your notes with one another to ensure you are both on the same path. If you are not, those are the points to discuss- because those are likely the ones that will cause you problems in the future.

So, if you really want to have a nice long-term united and fronted relationship with your significant other, always start to plan your goals when things are going really well, when you’re actually on the same path, always make sure of that from the very beginning. You’re always walking in the same direction. Make sure that no one is digressing from any of your paths.

Always stay with your eye on the goal. That’s how you avoid having to go to marriage intervention.

The big question is… when do you actually start creating these goals? Should you start when things are disastrous, when things are starting to fall apart or should you take a more proactive approach and start to plan out your goals when things are actually going well?

When you focus on creating, maintaining and reviewing your marriage goals on a regular basis, you will likely avoid marriage intervention.

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