Guys women want this.

Okay, guys here is a little friendly advice. Women actually like gentlemen. So, opening doors and pulling out chairs for them to sit is one thing. I am talking about the works. Like waking her up with breakfast or when you're around your buddies and she looks kinda lost pull her close and just give her a little wink for encouragement. Tell her she is beautiful at least once a day. Let her know you really care. Offer to help with the dishes. Take her out on a Tuesday just because. Give her hugs and spoil her with kisses and affection.

Second, if she has had kids, or has stretch marks tell her you love them, kiss each one to boost her confidence. Make her feel like she is the only woman you care about or see attractive. Spend time asking her about her day even if it is boring to listen to, actually listen. Pay attention to her. If she has mood swings try to understand what is going on. If she has had a rough week then offer to give her a back massage or run her a bubble bath. Tell her you love her often because we women are always going to feel unwanted sometimes.

Help with her kids. Try taking them to the park once in a while. Try helping them with homework so she can have a minute to breathe. Try cooking dinner or ordering pizza and watch movies with her. Cuddle her and hug her tight as if you never wanna let go. If you are having a disagreement do not yell or fuss with her. Grab her, give her a hug, and tell her "let's both take time to cool off and we can talk about this subject then." This way she can see that you don't want to say anything out of anger that you don't mean.

Ask her about her family, the ones you don't actually care too much for just so she knows you are trying to be there for her. Ask her if there is anything she wants to get off her chest. Offer to help her do anything that she seems to be struggling with. Tell her "everything is gonna be okay, we will work it out." When she looks like she is going to fall apart. When she cries, give her a shoulder to cry on. Let her see you are compassionate. Let her know when you are having a hard time. Tell her how you feel. Show her you are going to work on your relationship to keep her. Show her you will fight for her.

If you feel like she doesn't understand where you stand then tell her. If you think she doesn't see your side of the story then explain it by sitting her down and telling her how you feel. If you work all the time and don't have time to do this then on your day off just do something small to let her know you still love her and you appreciate her.

I know this seems like a lot to do but do you realize all the things she goes through each day to be right there by your side and that she loves you. These things are not hard to do and almost all of them are free and cost you nothing. Women are a bit needy we don't mean to be but that is how we are made up. We wait on you hand and foot or we cater to you just switch things up for once. Make her day once a week and you will keep her forever.