Getting along with women

Pushkin said: "The colder you are to a woman, the more you can get her attention."

Indeed, with women, men must not be subservient, you can accommodate her, but not indulge her.

If you always indulge her, she not only will not be high regard for you but will feel that you are not manly, and will not cherish you.

In life, some men everywhere to please women, put their position very low, but ultimately get what? Not get a woman's love and respect, but also not get love, it's not worth it.

Therefore, the man for the woman to pay must know how to stop, sometimes a little cold to her, she will instead put you on the heart.

In any relationship, men should not beg each other bitterly, not to mention that they become undignified. Once you look down on yourself, the woman can not see you.

Whether in love or marriage, women do not like the kind of humble pleasing men, more like the kind of pestering men.

So, men get along with women and must master the method, so that they become more dignified and charming.

Generally speaking, you use three methods "cold" woman, she will instead love you into the heart.

Pursuit of the process, the appropriate cold shoulder her

Men in the pursuit of women must know how to have a retreat, not only can not be too hasty but also can not be left alone.

When you decide to pursue a woman, be prepared for the long term, the so-called "eager to eat hot bean curd", only gradually lets her drop her guard, and smoothly into love.

And, in the pursuit of the process, you should know how to properly hold her, which is a strategy that will make women pay more attention to you.

Because she is used to you have been warm to her, everything to accommodate her, suddenly one day, you ignore her, she may be very uncomfortable

At this time, she will think in her heart, how you do not come after her? Is she doing something wrong? Based on this psychology, she will be in the next time to see you here, your attitude has changed.

So, you have achieved the purpose, she began to take into account your attitude, and the relationship will develop smoothly.

In life, some men have met the woman they like after, always desperately pursuing, all kinds of pleases this is not necessary.

If you pester a woman, put everything on her, she may not cherish but will hate you.

Men pursuing women must be strategic, neither to annoy women, but also can not always spoil them.

In the relationship, do have in and out, maintain their dignity, she will instead be on you, can not leave you.

Therefore, when you go after a woman, it may be appropriate to chill her out a bit, so that not only can cause her attention, but also let her look up to you.

Love is equal, men do not have to please women and lose their dignity, must grasp the right amount.

Of course, at the beginning of the pursuit, you can not chill out with the woman, but in the pursuit to a certain extent, or chase a long time, she did not accept, you can chill out.

Because, the woman is used to being pursued by you, suddenly you do not chase, she is certainly not used to, naturally will pour more thoughts on you.

Second, when she is unreasonable, may as well cold feet her

In a relationship, if the woman is always unreasonable to you, you should not humble yourself to please her, meaningless.

Because, the woman will take your accommodation for granted, and will not see you pay, much less see you're good.

You have done so much for her, she did not appreciate it, and your payment will be worthless.

Therefore, when women get along, you should know how to leave her alone, especially when she is unreasonable, you should not try to please her again.

At this point, your first cold feet her, she has some neglect, so that she has some reflection, so that will care about your feelings.

Some women like to toss men, no matter how well men do, they are not touched, but also often count men as bad.

Such women and men must not be spoiled, but show your attitude, so that she does not dare to trample on your dignity.

Miss Ma, a friend is a very made girl, she and her boyfriend after falling in love, are often unreasonable to her boyfriend.

In life, she is always changing ways to make her boyfriend pay for her, not only not moving, but also taking her boyfriend's contribution for granted.

For example, she always wants to eat in the middle of the night, let her boyfriend get up, and go out to buy. The boyfriend is so mentally exhausted by her every time that it affects the next day's work.

If on an important holiday, her boyfriend didn't give her a gift or didn't give her the red envelope she wanted, she would get angry and say that he didn't love her.

Her boyfriend once gave her a red envelope of 5,200 yuan for a happening day, and she thought it was less because her best friend received 10,001 yuan.

So, she looked for her boyfriend and argued with him, and she thought he was useless and couldn't give her the life she wanted.

Similar to these things is too much, and her unreasonable so that boyfriend is gradually heated cold, and eventually forced to put her down, to break up.

So, men and women get along, must not spoil her, can accommodate, but not indulge, your payment must have value, appropriate cold her, to make her self-reflection.

Three, endless to you when you ask, learn to leave her

The basis of the relationship is love, not material, if mixed with too many calculations, it is not true love.

Men and women get along, must know how to stop, do not pay for everything, especially when the woman to you endlessly demanding, but also to keep a clear head.

Even if you love a woman again, do not endlessly meet her material needs, otherwise, once she does not love, you may lose huge economic costs.

In life, some women are more materialistic, they are with men, and just want to get men's money, if you are spoiled, the ultimate loss is their own.

For example, some women just date, let the man spend too much, what all let the man pay, dinner, watching movies, buy clothes, etc., are men pay for.

Even, some women also ask men to ask for money, to buy a house to buy a car, small to often ask for red envelopes and gifts, which is not worth promoting.

So, men and women get along, and must not blindly pay, especially in terms of money, to have a certain degree of proportion.

Women always find excuses to ask you for money, this may not be true love, must have basic judgment.

Of course, if the woman does not behave too materialistic, just like often let you spend money, or ask for red packets, then you should also be appropriate cold to her.

At this point, you do not have to be all about pleasing her, but to be colder in attitude, and properly reject her requests, so that she recognizes that her behavior is not right.

Whether in love or marriage, men should never spoil a woman, you can pay, but not endlessly.

Now it is not easy to make money, your money must be spent worth it, can not spend the money and can not get a woman's heart, so what is the point?

In short, get along with a woman, if she always endlessly asks you for money and material, you should learn to be cold and refuse, so as not to suffer too much loss.

In the relationship, the loved one is emboldened, women are more so, and the more you please her, the more she does not care about you.

Therefore, men and women get along, you should know how to chill her out, don't ever become humble, only to maintain their decency and dignity, to get her heart.

In the pursuit of the process, the appropriate cold shoulder her; when she is unreasonable, maybe cold shoulder her; endlessly to you, learn to cold-shoulder her.

So, the woman will be more interested in you, she will see you pay, feel your care, and naturally can not leave you.

I hope that men learn these three ways to leave women alone, if she truly loves you, will certainly reflect on themselves, so you care more, and can no longer leave you.