Foreign marriage stories

Long-distance love, foreign love, or even exotic love is not an uncommon thing anymore.

Many girls prefer to be with foreigners after they get in touch with them.

They think foreigners are more casual and comfortable to get along with, and they like the kind of personality that foreigners don't take seriously.

But is it good to marry a foreigner in the end?

We don't have the right to speak without experiencing it, and finding a foreign son-in-law sounds quite foreign.

But what is the actual situation? We have to listen to the real people who have the experience to say.

Minmin, 36 years old, married in Australia for 6 years

Minmin is married to Australia for the sixth year this year. When asked about this question, Minmin shook her head: Do you think you are married to a foreign country to live a very good life, do you think a foreign son-in-law is the kind of very casual, very hardworking, very lively?

If I were to do it again, I would rather stay in the country, even if I married in a province far away from home I would like to.]

Minmin's husband is very handsome, Shanghai well, a very tolerant city and foreigners are also a lot, Minmin met such a tall and handsome boy will certainly be moved, he also happens to like Minmin very much, so the two began to fall in love.

When in love, of course, everything is good, a sunny and handsome boyfriend walking beside them, which girl is not vain?

But the marriage is not so good, the two of them exclude all the difficulties after the marriage followed her husband to Australia, Australia's environment or air, everything is very good.

Minmin thought she would have a very good life, but I did not expect that it was not as good as the domestic one.

Minmin's husband is not a generous man, probably because foreigners are used to the AA system and are used to a very clear division.

In addition to the wedding banquet to invite friends and relatives to dinner once, When is AA, and Minmin go out to dinner, sometimes AA, Minmin wants to buy a bag or something, her husband will also ask him many times, buy what?

Minmin wants to manage the money, but it is impossible. There is absolutely no way the husband would let him manage the money, he thinks the idea is ridiculous.

He earned the money himself, why give it to her to manage, but, in China, many men take the initiative to give their wives the financial power to take care of them.

Minmin's work in Australia is also average, not as good as everyone thinks, and their income is not as much as her husband's.

Sometimes you can't spend a lot of money at home, you have to think about it before you spend it, and your husband can't take the initiative to give her money to spend. Sometimes she asked her husband to give.

Jia Jia, 32 years old, married in France for 4 years

When asked how it feels to be married abroad, Jia Jia did not smile. Jia Jia did not show a smile: "I want to say, married abroad also have to face the same dilemma of bad relations between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, married abroad also have to fight for life, married abroad is not an ivory tower, the world is the same, have to worry about life."

Jia Jia, who married in France for the fourth year, said she still lived with her mother-in-law, and her husband's family was living in China at a moderately affluent level, not even well-off.

She thought she would be able to live a relaxed and comfortable life, but that was not the case at all.

Her husband's income is average, and her mother-in-law doesn't help her much with the kids, and she has to work, take care of the kids, and take care of the family.

Her husband was very romantic when he fell in love, but after marriage is not that romantic at all, and she and her mother-in-law usually do not communicate much, there are a lot of conflicts in the middle.

Foreign women do not help their daughters-in-law with their children, in their eyes, it is your child, not mine, I have no obligation to help you.

This Jia Jia can understand, but sometimes when Jia Jia is busy, her mother-in-law also ignores her, which makes Jia Jia Jia very cold.

She did not feel very relaxed in France, but more tired than at home. Not only are the prices high, but her income is also average, so her life is not half as good as at home.

Sister ng, 48 years old, married in Canada for 20 years

Yang worked in a foreign trade company when she was young, and settled back in Canada with her husband after she met him. Now there are also 20 years, Yang and her husband are very loving.

The two of them have been married for so many years, and they are still in love with each other. They have a daughter, and now they are working.

Yang's husband is a funny man who speaks Chinese very well, so there is no obstacle to communication between them.

Yang's mother-in-law died early, and now she has a father-in-law living in a nursing home, and they both belong to the kind of people who love freedom, so they never try to tie each other down.

The two of them have a good income and often go back to China together and travel around together.

When Yang came to Canada, there were times when she was not used to it, and many places made her want to divorce and return to China.

After reading the stories of the above three women, I think, whether you marry a Chinese or a foreigner, marrying the right person is the key.

No matter who you marry, as long as that person is right.

No matter where you live, you will be happy.

So, in the matter of marriage, you must keep your eyes open to see if the man you want to marry is worth it.