Assumptions

Assumptions

Let me start off by saying this, I know some females and males but more so females, are not going to like the ending of this, and to that I say, if you don’t like it you most likely did those things to someone you were with and felt it was justified for your reasons. If your reasons are because he cheated on you or he put hands on you whenever he was drunk or mad about something that you didn’t do or say or did say to him then cool I understand. But if you feel what you did was justified because he didn’t give you the attention you wanted, your wrong, you should have left him, period. Even if you did it because you found out he cheated, wrong you should have just left him. There are some things you just don’t do.

You know one thing that makes no sense to me at my age is when people hear about something or witness something the run with that without knowing the reason behind what saw or heard or was told, or if what they were told is even true at all.

Say you saw someone just run up and smack someone that was minding there own business in the face. You gonna think to yourself or out loud, oh why that person run up on them like that, that’s not cool him/her just smacking that person for no reason. How you know it’s for no reason? For all you know that person who got smacked probably did something for that to happen to them. You see someone go to into someone’s house after 12am you right away assume it’s a booty call, could be, or that could be a family member going to a family members house after a night of drama from else where need to clear they head.

You see a woman alone at a store with two kids and she is currently pregnant, your thought are, oh the father aint shit he left this women by herself with these kids, men ain’t shit. For all you know that father probably at work doing doubles for his family OR that female chose to be alone or did something for that man to not be there. You hear about or see a man hit a woman right away we thinking oh this dude messed up he shouldn’t be putting his hands on a female ( I agree) but I also learned from my experience and others that you never know what transpired for that man to lose it and do what he know his not right... it is more than possible that, that female did something to trigger than man who has not put hands on her daily or any other female in his life, so many scenarios. maybe he just found out from going through her phone that she slept with multiple guys unprotected while pregnant with his child? Maybe he also just found out from going through phone that she has been taking his car to go see other guys and having his in his car and he found a condom wrapper in his backseat, maybe he seen Nudes she send to guys while pregnant with his child and had her wedding wring on in the photos and videos she sent. Maybe that made him lose it? So many different reasons their could be.

Don’t just assume you know what’s what because you see it happening in front of you or because the person who told you supposedly never lied to you before or you believe it just because the person that’s telling you is who it happened to but your also sleeping with them in one way or the other.

Assumptions