After marriage, please stop ambiguous

Often seen on the Internet such a topic: "Is there pure friendship between the opposite sex in the end?"

Most people's answer is: "No", there are a few people who answered: "Yes, but there is almost no idea about each other completely".

It can be seen that it is very difficult to have a real pure friendship between the opposite sex, two very good relationships between the opposite sex, in fact, the first close to each other, mutual attraction, mostly because of the emergence of a good feeling.

However, many people even if they like each other, are often reluctant to admit it.

The reason for this is that either the two people know that there is no possibility that they can only be friends, afraid to say that the relationship will break, only to bury the love in the heart.

In addition, there are some people who, for many reasons did not come together, in meeting each has a family, but do not want to miss again, you can only keep in touch in the name of friends.

Perhaps in your opinion, you just occasionally chat and talk between you, and did not do anything out of the ordinary.

I don't know, two people who have put each other in their hearts, even if they did not cross the line, words and actions will also show an invisible trend of ambiguity, over time, it will be a problem.

Therefore, after marriage, please stop ambiguity, do not because the impulse, one step wrong, ruin the good easily formed family.

The ambiguous relationship, hurt people to hurt themselves

In the world of emotions, some people miss a lifetime, do not fantasize that you can start over again, and renew the previous relationship.

Especially married people, more should adhere to the heart, the focus on family and career, rather than spend time and effort maintaining an ambiguous relationship with those who are no longer possible.

If you are single, you and who ambiguous that is your right, but once you have a family, and the opposite sex to keep a distance, the other half of the open and honest is the most basic respect.

And you have to understand, that ambiguous relationships, not only will not last long but also hurt people who hurt themselves.

In life, we always see some people, obviously married, but still, all day and the opposite sex friends mixed, in the end, not only a bad reputation but even a good family also scattered.

Therefore, a married person, and the opposite sex when getting along, must grasp the right measure, not let people destroy your marriage, and not give others to leave a handle.

Ambiguity is not loved, just freshness at work

In the eyes of many people, ambiguity is a sign of liking. But for people who are married, ambiguity is not like that.

The reason why many people are still married and the opposite sex frequently is mostly because the life after marriage is too plain, that is, no first meeting when the heart pounding, but also no love when the freshness.

So, many people in the marriage, as long as the marriage is not happy, or two people often contradict each other, feel that they have chosen the wrong person.

At this time, if you suddenly meet a gentle and considerate friend of the opposite sex, you will take each other as a lifesaver, while confiding in their misfortune, while seeking comfort.

For a long time, the relationship between the two people will slowly become ambiguous, and words and actions will be beyond the scope of ordinary friends.

If you do not know how to stop, but also ignorantly trapped in, and finally will only make their deep mud, in a dilemma.

Whether in real life, or some film and television clips, many people will always be ambiguous about love, but I do not know married people, but also and others have ambiguous relationships, just fresh in the sense of play.

And you have to understand that if a person knows that you are married, and you still maintain an ambiguous relationship or even deliberately say something, or do something to make others misunderstand, most of them do not really like you.

You should know that a worthy friend of the opposite sex, once you have a family, will keep a distance from you and will not disturb your life, much less destroy your family.

So you have to understand that some people keep ambiguous relationships with you, purely to get a momentary benefit. And some people and you keep the ambiguous relationship but also is only the freshness in the play.