After Divorce

If we talk about the middle-aged couple after divorce, the second half of life lived more miserable.

Everyone's thoughts must directly think of the wife because now there is still some discrimination against women in society.

In particular, some people feel that after the woman left the man, there is no way to live, will certainly be a bad life.

Of course, this is not certain, because, for some middle-aged women in divorce, life is instead like a hang-up.

Even if the youth is not there, but life is slowly going to the top, getting better and better.

In the end, those who lived a better life, who spent the rest of their lives more miserable, now tell you a true story to tell you the answer, which is indeed more realistic.

In the eyes of outsiders, Zhou Y's life is smooth, this year, he has just been promoted, is also taking the annual salary of the people, his son got into a major university, the results are very good, and his wife is also very virtuous, is the legendary on the hall down to the kitchen kind of woman, can not be rare. Many people are envious of Zhou Y's life.

It may be that life is too smooth, the pressure on Zhou Y is getting smaller and smaller, and he began to float a little. The company's female co-workers have an affair with Zhou Y, who has nothing better to do.

One day when he came home, his wife was preparing to do laundry when she pulled out his cell phone from his pocket and saw his ambiguous messages with his female colleagues.

The wife couldn't accept the news for a while, and then she directly mentioned divorce. Zhou Y did not expect his wife to be so determined and thought she would give him a chance to correct himself, but it turned out that she could be so heartless and did not want to give him a chance.

He saw his wife's attitude as very determined, and there is no way to remedy the situation, so he agreed to divorce his wife, and soon went through the divorce procedures.

After the divorce, Zhou Y's mother was hit in a car accident and her leg was broken. This is if before the divorce, Zhou Y's wife must have gone to the hospital early to take care, even if there is no one else to help, she can also take care of her mother-in-law very well.

But already divorced, he did not want to bother his ex-wife, so he could only spend money to hire a caregiver for his mother.

After a few days of care, Zhou Y's mother started to complain and scolded Zhou Y for losing her good daughter-in-law.

This time, Zhou Y has a little regret, because he recalls, for so many years, he has been busy with work, and the task of taking care of the elderly on both sides fell on the shoulders of his wife, his wife never complained too hard.

He has always taken care of both the elderly and his own small home, so he has more time and energy to fight for his career so that he has the current achievements.

He should be grateful to his wife, but he did the wrong thing and broke her heart, turning her into an ex-wife, with no chance of correcting her later.

What makes Zhou Y even angrier is that after his divorce, the female colleague who had an affair with him before, was also planning to divorce, wait until Zhou Y left, she said she was just playing with him and did not want to divorce, let him not think too much.

The two of them, now in the company rumors, have affected the work of two people, especially Zhou Y, it looks like they may be demoted.

Not only is there a problem at work, but Zhou Y's body has also become ill. He used to be served by his wife, three meals a day very well, but now he is left alone, and can not cook, hungry and full, which often stomach pain.

After his son found out that he had initiated the divorce, he took the initiative to break off the relationship with him.

The understanding son also knows how much his mother has paid for the family, his father has hardly ever paid for the family and even made betrayal the family, which is too shameless.

After the divorce Zhou Y came to his senses, he felt that his ex-wife was still more suitable for him, and he knew that there was no way for him to live without his ex-wife.

When he begged his ex-wife to come back, he found that she had remarried and found a man who loved her and understood her, and now people are living happily.

Zhou Y made betrayal of marriage at first, thinking of looking for some excitement, but did not put his wife in the eyes.

Now he knows he regrets it and wants to get his ex-wife back again, but people don't give him that chance. Not only is his wife not coming back, but his son is also unwilling to recognize him. His colleagues and friends feel that his character is not good and they are not willing to take care of him.

Zhou Y did not think that he had done one thing wrong and had such a big impact on his life. If I had known that this was the case, I would not have done such a thing, it is a pit for me.

Now Zhou Y can only do with his tail between his legs, not dare to offend anyone, and no longer have the kind of smugness of the past. It seems to be a mistake.

After the divorce, the second half of the life of the miserable person, is the one who betrayed the marriage, and finally will be a rebellion, no one wants to take care of you, and Zhou Y's consequences are the same.

Many people think the same as Zhou Y, did not expect their partners will be so determined, simply do not give them a second chance, directly to the divorce.

And they thought they could look for a little excitement, did not think that is, finally put themselves to the bitter, the rest of their lives are lost.

Originally had a very good day, is not willing to live well, is a variety of work, is looking for excitement, there is such a result, these are you should get.

You just think about yourself as looking for excitement, have you thought about you also hurting others, have you thought about being responsible for what you do when you have not thought about anything, you think about yourself to have fun, certainly, you will not have good results.

Because you put your happiness, built on top of the pain of others.

This answer is still very true because you have caused harm to others, you do not know it, and think it is just a little indulgence, what's the matter? If you are thinking this way, it means that you are too irresponsible.

I hope that now middle-aged people, are responsible for their actions, do not because of your momentary greed, you hurt the people you love most, when you cause harm to others, there may be no way to make up, and di not allow you to make up, so for you, is the biggest loss it.

Be responsible for your own married life and be a responsible person. So that the later years of life, will not be late and miserable.