A person alienated you, the reason is obvious

A lot of people always like to muddle through life, although there is nothing wrong with being muddled, some muddling is not supposed to be.

In this world, many things are veiled, you do not reveal them will only make you more and more tormented.

Just like when two people get along, you are single-mindedly good to each other, but the other party does not want to appreciate you, but you find excuses for yourself, saying that you have not given enough.

This tucked away pretend to be the confusing thing to do no more, it will only let you in this relationship deeper and deeper, and finally, wanting to break free is difficult to do.

People rely on fate and love together, if the two are destined to run out, love dissipated, then not if the breaking point is to let go of it.

A person alienated you, the reason is obvious, do not lie to yourself, because your fate has long since come to an end.

People and people get along through communication, if two people are hanging on to each other in their hearts, then even if they are far away from each other can also contact each other.

But if two people even without distance interval, or no topic can talk, then there is no need to force it.

The life of a person is a "from nothing to nothing again" process, the people who should accompany you will not leave you far away, and the people who should leave will not stay more.

You may not be able to figure out why you have given so much, but the other party has to leave.

Fate does not depend on the payment to maintain, everything has a quantity, you exceed this amount will lead to the opposite effect.

With people, not the more you give, the more you will be able to get.

That is why it is important to behave in a relaxed manner and spend more time improving yourself.

After all, the fate of this kind of thing, in the underworld has been predetermined, it is better to let nature take its course.

The people who are distant from you must be unable to understand you and love you.

If the other party is willing to distance themselves from you, they must not be afraid to lose you.

When you become less important in their hearts, then your payment is wishful thinking.

Many people lament: "If life is only like the first time, what happened to the autumn wind sad painting fan."

The world will not stop running for a person, and society serves more than one person.

People will always experience something and then change dramatically in their mindset and other aspects.

They have their new choice, and this choice happens to be contrary to yours.

Just as the circles are different, the common discourse will gradually become less and less, and over time a sense of alienation comes.

Second, a good relationship is a need for two people to maintain together.

If only one side were to maintain, the relationship will sooner or later be disconnected.

You enthusiastically sent seven or eight messages to each other, but the other party only gave you a reply "Oh", thinking you will not take care of him again.

When people give, they always want to get the corresponding feedback, if the other party does not even reply to your mind, then the desire to share will slowly dissipate, and thus the two become no longer in contact.

The relationship between people is often hidden in these small things, disappointment is also because of these small things little by little accumulation.

All relationships are distant, there must be a reason, you do not understand the reason, most likely because you do not want to let yourself accept.

In addition, if a person alienated you, you can think about whether it is your problem.

The world is full of people, and we all want to stay with people who are comfortable with each other.

If one person is distant from you, it may be the other person's problem; if everyone is distant from you, then you need to reflect on it.

You need to think about whether your character is not good, whether you always put your interests first, etc.

People getting along with each other is the transmission of emotions, if you just treat others as a tool, then the other party naturally will not treat you with sincerity.

Estrangement is the result of disappointment. Instead of putting all the blame on others, calm down and think about your situation.

When you find the root cause of the problem, you will be able to prescribe the right remedy.

But, certainly, you are not destined for each other, after all, from the moment of estrangement, your life trajectory has deviated.

There is no standard answer to many things in life, don't force the circle that doesn't blend in, don't love your people distant, and what can be done?

If you feel lonely, people around you are avoiding you, then reflect on yourself, and change yourself well.

You have to learn to face these relationships openly and find the right circle for your survival.

In the end, people are different and their lifestyles are naturally different.

Some people think it is lonely to be alienated, but some people think it is a blessing to be alienated.

You will find that the simpler life is, the happier it is, and it's not a joy to have no one around to bother you.