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8 Psychological Tricks That Actually Work

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By Samba Mulumba Published about a year ago 6 min read
8 Psychological Tricks That Actually Work
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Have you ever found yourself doing something you swore you'd never do or saying yes to a favor you thought you'd never say no to? But your friends managed to convince you in some way. Either your friends are very persuasive and kind, or they may have employed psychological ploys to influence you. But at this point, you might be wondering what types of psychological ploys really work. Teachers, psychologists, and possibly even your friends are skilled users of some of these techniques.

Here are eight psychological tests that are reliable.

1.First of all, address them by name. When you mention someone, they love it. Well, generally speaking. Saying someone's name in the middle of a conversation with them is a great way to get their attention and bring the conversation back to you or them. When a teacher calls your name in the middle of a lesson, you immediately pay attention and are brought back to the moment, as you may have noticed when you were a child. Teachers call out students' names to refocus them on the topic at hand because they don't want their pupils to become distracted. Use the same strategy to draw attention to yourself. Try to frequently use that person's name and to use it at the start or end of questions when conversing with someone you admire. This will draw their attention and liven up your routine conversations. Give someone something while you're still talking to them, which is number two.

2.Here's a cool trick. Consider a scenario in which you desperately need assistance carrying something to your room, but your obnoxious brother isn't willing to lend a hand. Try handing him the item while you're talking to him to see if you can get his assistance. People tend to accept anything you reach out and hand them when they are in the middle of telling a story or having a meaningful conversation for some odd reason. Sure, give it a shot the next time. While you talk with them about the complexities of life and the motion of the planets, give them your banana peel at random. Without a doubt, they'll take it from you.

3.Chew gum during an exam to practice the Pavlov Theory. Unbelievably, chewing bubble gum might just be the secret to passing your next important test. If you really need to ace that next test, you might want to find a unique flavor of gum and start chewing it during your study sessions. You'll have trained your brain to associate that flavor of gum with the knowledge you studied for the test by the time you take the exam. Additionally, it might just aid in your memory during the test. This type of conditioning was inspired by Pavlovian theory. A stimulus and conditioned response are paired in the Pavlovian Theory of learning, claims Husson University Online. Ivan Pavlov demonstrated how the presence of a bowl of dog food, the stimulus, would cause the dogs to have an unconditioned response, which is salivation, in his now-famous experiments with his dogs. So the next time you're studying for a test, get the bubble gum out and start chewing. You might get that A+ if you do it.

4.The fourth tip is to try visualizing where you want to be in life. Using a form of cognitive dissonance to your advantage, this psychological ploy can be very beneficial to you if you use it correctly. Try to adopt the mindset of the person you want to become. The mental conflict that arises when a person's behaviors and beliefs do not line up is referred to as cognitive dissonance, according to Medical News Today, a theory in social psychology. But rather than feeling that discomfort, consider using cognitive dissonance to spur internal change. If you are having trouble getting your actions to match your intentions, try persuading yourself in your head that you are already pursuing those objectives. Let's say you have a tendency to overspend and that you have a slight shopping addiction. Try telling yourself that you simply aren't the kind of person who enjoys shopping a lot and that it's not your thing if you want to break this habit. If you put in the effort, altering your mindset might influence your behavior. You might also be a little depressed if you tend to see the worst in everything. Even though it's important to let your emotions flow, try to picture yourself as someone who is always positive. If you do this, you might find that even on your grumpy days, you start to see the bright side. Imagine yourself in the situation in life you want to be in and use cognitive dissonance to your advantage. Changing your perspective to that of the person you want to become may put you on the road to actually becoming that person.

5.The fifth tip is to request a big favor, then downgrade it to a smaller one. Consider the scenario: You have your eye on the adorable chinchilla in the pet store window and are determined to get it. The chinchilla is staring you down with his adorable little beady eyes as you walk by the pet shop every day on your way home from school. You've already decided that you want to name him Gibs, but it's almost your birthday and you don't have the money to buy him for yourself. In that case, try requesting a dog from your parents first if you want to take advantage of a psychological ploy. If you ask your parents for a major favor first, they're likely to say no. But wait, you don't want a dog; you want Gibs the chinchilla. They are less likely to refuse you if you later change it to a smaller favor. This method, known as the "door-in-the-face technique" in psychology, can be applied in a variety of circumstances. If you know your friend doesn't like to lend you a lot of money but you really need $20, try asking for $50 instead. Compared to that, $20 seems a lot less. Gibs and you are currently enjoying a wonderful life. Ask for a favor when someone is worn out, according to rule number six.

6.Another cunning psychological ploy is being used here. Let's say your friend really needed to crash at your house. You've spent the entire evening binge-watching The Office on Netflix, and you're undoubtedly busy. You've made up your mind to refuse their request because you simply can't let them stay the night. In the middle of the night, however, your friend unexpectedly knocks on your door. You've now let them inside and permitted them to stay the night. Because you were too worn out to resist their requests, you gave in. Studies show that people are more susceptible to persuasion when they are tired, even if they initially didn't want to do it. Both your physical and mental exhaustion are the same. Additionally, you really didn't want to argue with your friend that late at night. Anything you could have done to end the situation quickly so you could rest. Seventh, imitate others to help you make friends. If you're having trouble making friends at school, try mirroring their gestures and movements without changing anything about who you are, and they might be more receptive to getting to know you. Further research has looked into this type of mirroring, which is known as the Chameleon Effect. Someone may be more willing to be your friend if they believe that you are similar to them. So, it's possible that someone is subconsciously mirroring you in an effort to seduce you and win your trust, or, more likely, I want to be your friend.

8. Nod your head when you want someone to concur with you. Have you ever needed someone to support a proposal you were making at work, or maybe you really want it to persuade someone to agree with you on a topic you just know they would understand if they were willing to listen? They should just watch The Office on Netflix, really, they should. They'd probably want to watch it if they could just grasp this point you're making and agree with it. When you want someone to agree with you, try nodding while you're talking. In a 1980s study that was published in the Applied Psychology Journal, psychologists discovered that people are more likely to agree with someone when they nod while listening to them. The intensity of someone else's story might even cause you to unconsciously nod in agreement. Remember, as Uncle Ben once said, "With great power comes great responsibility." So what do you think of these psychological ploys? Therefore, only use these for good and be aware that others might also be using them on you.

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