15 Spotting Signs of A Low Value Man

Emotionally messed up men are low value men. They are characterized with unresolved emotions and is unaware he is run by them. He could look rational, presentable and composed in appearance but he reacts to diverse life situations in a disorderly manner. If you are in a relationship with this kind of man you are preparing yourself for doom.

Disclaimer: A man could possess one or two of these qualities and still be high value.

Below are clear indications of a low value man;

1. He is aggressive and abusive.

A low value man is emotionally messed up. He can’t take control of his mind and emotions. He often resorts to aggressiveness to get a grip on himself. 

He bursts out in anger for futile things which would have little or no impact on a normal man. He views the world as a dangerous place so he is constantly on the offense and attack. He is overly argumentative and he’d not stop till he proves his point.

2. He feels entitled.

The feeling of entitlement is a narcissistic personality trait. A low value man feels that he is very important and people owes him respect and duty. He wants people to speak highly of him and see him in that light. He is always demanding because he feels he deserves whatever he is asking of.

3. He is full of Negativity

A low value man is usually bitter and resentful about things that don’t deserve much attention. He sees a problem in every solution. He often confesses negativity even when the situation is not as bad as that. He wants the best for himself but speaks negatively of others. Condemnation and criticism is the garment on his tongue. He never sees the light in the face of darkness.

4. He has no internal reference.

Men who are high value in nature possess a strong sense of self. Low value men do not have a source of security, esteem and worth. He has no internal foundation. He doesn’t trust himself and his decisions. He prefers to ask others to make decisions for him. He is always in need of external voices for confirmation, reassurance and opinions. 

He is fond of listening to other people. He has volatile behaviors and they tend to change their minds according to who is around or who the audience is. He has no drive and purpose in life.

5. He has no meaningful goals and purpose in life.

He is scared of seeking purpose because he doesn’t trust his own capabilities. He is only concerned with getting by in life.

6. He is overly dramatic.

He victimizes himself and sees others as enemies trying to harm him. He is full of drama and doesn’t know how to resolve conflicts. He is always ready to stand his grounds and make a scene even when his reasons are baseless. He seeks attention from everyone around him. He is constantly on the move to paint a perfect picture of himself.

7. Rigid and egoistic.

A low value man cannot compromise most of the time, and things has to go his own way. He is rigid and this is a sign of deep unease and fear of the unknown. It indicates deep suffering. He can’t keep one job because he always has issues with authority. He gets in conflict with his boss and senior colleagues. He has a problem with authority and collaboration.

8. He is a mummy’s boy.

He believes his mother is the only one that understands him. He uses her as a reference point most of the time when he tells people about himself. He runs back to her for judgement, solace and affirmations.

9) He is emotionally unavailable.

He never wants to give into any union fully. He is always scared of betrayal. He anticipates failures so he doesn’t bother getting too attached to anyone or involving himself too much in something. He is too full of himself and he doesn’t have much time to care about the feelings of others.

10. He steps back in the face of difficulty.

He doesn’t have the growth mindset. He is comfortable with things the way they are. He only wants to do the bare minimum with the minimum effort possible. Why get a better job when this one pays the bills? He is not ready to be stressed or strained.

11. He is in need of constant validation.

A low value man has crazy spending habits because he feels the need to impress others in other to feel good about himself. He always wants to hear what people thinks about him. He could go out of his means to give off a false impression. He is concerned about his image and he is in love with the status quo. 

12. He chooses friends less than him.

A man of low values has inferior complex. He thinks the world is divided into two parts; the people above him and the people below him. He always wants to be the best amongst his friends. He feels threatened by any display of superiority.

13. Quick to criticize people.

He doesn’t have many friends because people genuinely stay away from him. He misses many opportunities in life and makes enemies along the way. He talks badly about others to feel good about himself.

14. He is unpredictable.

He has no form of discipline. He can cancel plans because he feels he has the ultimate control over himself. He does things that are convenient for him. He is not principled and firm in his character. You can never tell what he is up to the next minute.

15. He is stingy and cheap.

Low value men do not trust their abilities to be financially stable. He is insecure and has a mindset of scarcity. He fears that he’d go broke one day. He is always bargaining and he’d rather go for a coffee date than an exotic dinner outing with his significant other. He would frown when he is asked to pay his bills, he’d prefer the cheapest meals on the menu. Even when he is wealthy he has a mediocre mindset.