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10 Common Lies Told by Women

Sssshhhh Don't Say I Told You

By LaMarion ZieglerPublished 5 months ago 4 min read
10 Common Lies Told by Women
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So, you may wonder: why are some relationships more honest than others? Why do some partners tell the truth to each other on one piece of information and others deceive the partner with a falsehood? No one deserves to be lied but, you have no doubt that women lie a lot frequent. But so, men do the same.

In general, if you have trust issues for that relation then the woman coz a lie. Create Trust — this is something that you will have to start building from day one of the relationship. So even though of, so many say the ''white lies'' to make others better. Certain women lie because, being the human beings that they are, they want to avoid hurting the feelings of the man with whom they're dating or seeing.

Now let me tell you of some common lies that women speak and which you must know. There may come a day when your partner tells you because it is better to know the actual meaning of these words.

1. You're perfect. You're perfect just the way you are, and I wouldn't have you any other way. Let us be real; no one is perfect. All of them say this in the beginning of a relationship because they did not know you that well, but after some time will surely find something that should be changed. Therefore, if she says something like this to you, do not get too excited because she sees you as perfect for a few days and then will demand changes from you.

2. You're right. How do you feel when your girlfriend broke up every time you are arguing each other and is always the end of saying that right. Perhaps you salute yourself for this, but I have to tell you that it a big fat lie! She said this to silence you, even if she didn't think you're right. She knows that for some time yet you will realize she is right, perhaps even expect an apology.

3. Nothing is wrong. Women most often using the lie 'I'm OK' when being asked ( 'Is anything wrong?') You notice that she is unhappy, she behaves weird or she does not want to talk to you much and you try to ask her what is wrong and he replied everything is good. So basically, they are not willing to tell the real truth, but they want men to know that something is wrong and those they made it clear that there was nothing so do mistake.

4. I do love sports honey. Perhaps every week, when football comes on, she agrees to stay and watch it with you, but chances are, she doesn't like it. She agrees to do this only to prove you that she is not like other girls and you have certain things in common. You might think she is the girl of your dreams, i.e. not many females would want to hang around and watch football with you but don't rejoice too soon because in a few weeks time she can be fed up and upset when you park yourself in front of the TV again for a game.

5. I love you to hang out with your friends. This is fine at the beginning but not much more. In addition, even if they are such good friends of you, she would want to spend more time alone with you rather than your friends? She will ask you to limit visits by your friends, and if this is in the data set she may continue to pretend she loves them.

6. I like hanging out with your family, because they are adorable. The truth? Maybe twice a month. Think about it. If you truly believe she likes being with YOUR family where everybody is gossiping about her and monitoring her every single step? She will hang out with your family if needed but I bet it won't be fun for her even if she acts in front of you that they are fun.

7. Your bank account doesn't matter. You would have had to be incredibly gullible to believe this. We all know this is an absolute lie. Every woman wants a financial stable independent guy who can assure her about future which means no such pathway towards economic hindrances. By girlfriend I do not mean that you always have to be very rich but if you do have some money.

8. Whether you look after women or chose to go with your boys at strip-clubs does not matter to me but. This is too good to be truth. She'd say that is fine then, but she'd be upset if you want to go. They hate being second fiddle to a night out with the boys, and they put up with it to make themselves seem less pathetically needy. You will get many comments afterwards if you go, better think before going.

9. You are very good in bed. You didn't need to believe everything she was saying if she was talking about this topic without you asking her. Just because she starts saying nice things about your sexual experience doesn't actually mean she believes it. Usually, a woman who loves a man tells him everything he knows she wants to hear so that he feels good about himself. So imagine your girlfriend, the relationship you have and if it is really something to brag about when it comes to sexual experience.

10. Don't worry, that happens to everyone. Your girlfriend will tell you this lie if you only make a mistake or fail in making love. She don't want to let you see how shaken up she is on you, but in her mind, flies. I would not be so sure every mistake made will be forgiven, and I do worry that you are going to start having too many ''accidents'' like these.

Having shown all these, now it will be easier for you to identify when your girlfriend is lying. As you can see, what a woman says is not what she means.

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LaMarion Ziegler

Creative freelance writer with a passion for crafting engaging stories across diverse niches. From lifestyle to tech, I bring ideas to life with clarity and creativity. Let's tell your story together!

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    Written by LaMarion Ziegler