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Mutual Masturbation for Heterosexual Couples
Getting Started with Mutual Masturbation Mutual masturbation with your partner can not only be very sexy and fun, it can also help you to learn how and where they like to be touched during those intimate moments. Nobody knows their body like they do, so take mental notes. It is best to start off sitting across from your partner so that you both can easily see and watch each other. Pay attention to where their hands fall on their body, as well as how. I don’t just mean watching the obvious parts of their body either. Especially men, should take notice of where else on her body she rubs or grips.
By Timothy A Rowland6 years ago in Filthy
Write Erotica Right! (Part 3)
World building is something that gets taken for granted in erotic literature because the focus is on how we get to the bumping uglies part and we assume everyone knows what the scene looks like, a bedroom, a kitchen, the pool, a bar. In making this assumption we are then missing key flavors in the story that draw you in. The world is a character that's all around us all the time.
By Bella Cooper6 years ago in Filthy
Sex in the Car
Sex in the Front Seat of the Car A lot of people think that having sex in a car is just something for exhibitionists to do or that it falls under the category of sex in public. Those people are wrong. Yes, you can be an exhibitionist and have sex in a car so that others can see you; or maybe just in a location and way that you run the very real risk of being caught. However; it is both easy to do and very fun to have sex in a car without the danger of being caught. Don't believe me? Ask anyone who was a teenager in the "dirty south" and they will tell you.
By Timothy A Rowland6 years ago in Filthy
How to Eat Pussy 101
Introduction Welcome to a quick introduction on how to eat pussy. Yes, it's "How to Eat Pussy 101"... the most important class a man can take; according to his woman :-) First off, if you have not been going down on your woman, because you are afraid that you won't be good at it; that was your first mistake. Not going down on her for any reason, is way worse than going down and not being good at it. Most women will at least guide you or tell you how to please them... as long as you are willing to at least try.
By Timothy A Rowland6 years ago in Filthy
All Night Long Sex
Reality Check Time People don't often stop to think that "sex" and "intercourse" are actually two different things. You want an all night long sex marathon; which is not only possible, but a hell of a lot of fun. However; let's be realistic here, you are not likely to withstand having actual intercourse all night long. Both of you would be so raw half way through it that it would ruin any fun or passion you may have had at the start.
By Timothy A Rowland6 years ago in Filthy
Writing Erotica Right!
So, I am asked, how can you write about a bunch of folks bumping uglies. That kind sir is not Erotica, that is porn. Erotica is much more mainstream now, finally. Just look at HBO. The L-Word, Carnival Row, Game of Thrones. The list goes on. These are Erotica. Hell, I was just watching Stargate Universe and talk about the nipples and soft porn craziness in that show. Wow.
By Bella Cooper6 years ago in Filthy
Men Can Masturbate with the Showerhead Too
Men Can Masturbate with the Showerhead Too It is a pretty common and well-known fact that women can masturbate using the showerhead. Strangely though, a lot of people- including a lot of men- don’t realize that men can masturbate with the shower head too. Of course; we are talking about the showerhead that has the stream that is usually adjustable. Well, this post has you covered and we are going to go over how this is a great way for men to take care of themselves in the shower too.
By Timothy A Rowland6 years ago in Filthy
How to Write Sex Scenes In Your Stories
One evening at Windsor, the windows steamed up as a member of the Writing Hurts Like Hell workshop read her exercise about a couple having sex. The catch was that the piece had to be written from inside the mind of one of the characters…no second voice descriptions, no “she panted” “he thrust” or “they writhed.” It had to be whatever was going through the mind of the character while having sex written as though the writer were that person.
By Biff Mitchell6 years ago in Filthy
How To Treat Your Unicorn
A unicorn is rare, mystical, and perceived as a myth. In the non-monogamous (or monogamous) community it's quite the same. This is a term (that can be derogatory) used to describe someone, usually femme, who joins a couple for a consensual ménage à trois. Generally it's monogamous-ish and heterosexual-ish couples look for a bisexual female for no-strings-attached, usually one-time-only sex.
By Bee Tattersall6 years ago in Filthy
