4 ways to up your BJ game

A blow job a day keeps the boredom away...

Ok, that is not a real saying, I just made it up, but if you are looking to spice up your relationship this might be the key. I am going to share with you 4 categories to explore that will add an element of excitement to your regular bedroom routine.

Food

I know we have all been told not to play with our food, but adding food to sex play can add an extra level of excitement. Here are some ideas to help you incorporate food into your BJ bag of tricks:

1. The Grapefruit Technique: if you know then you know, if not I highly suggest heading over to youtube and doing a search.

2. Pop Rocks: this one is an oldy, but a goody, simply put the popping candy into your mouth and go to town.

3. Strong Mints: another tried and true one, these have a cooling/slightly numbing effect.

4. Banana Split: this one can get messy, so plan ahead, but some whipped cream and flavored syrups can go a long way in creating a fun and erotic experience for both of you.

Location

A change of scene can do wonders for the imagination. Try adding these locations to your usual routine. Many of them will appeal to those who are excited by voyeurism as well.

1. Window: have the receiving partner lean on the window sill looking out, while the giving partner is kneeling below the window sill.

2. Car: another old but good one, pull over on an empty road for a quick pitstop.

3. Outside: take a hike and find a secluded area, the risk of being caught always adds an element of excitement.

4. Shower: this location can be especially exciting with the addition of soap and the ability to let things get extra messy.

Roleplaying

Roleplaying is a staple of sex play. We all have fantasies and it can be fun to act them out, give these scenarios a try. Also, don't let outdated gender roles hold you back from fully exploring these characters...you can always have a male assistant.

1. Nurse/Doctor: This one can go so many ways, but assistance will be needed with a special procedure.

2. Boss/Assistant: It has been a long and stressful day and everyone is looking for a release.

3. Plumber/Homeowner: There is a bit of extra plumbing that is in need of attention...

4. Delivery Person/ Customer: Pizza or packages, there is a special delivery that needs attention right away...

Surprise

This kind of surprise is always fun, of course, make sure you have consent before continuing. Surprises are also fun to plan and you may find the build-up almost as fun as the act.

1. On the phone: don't mind me, just focus on wrapping up that call...

2. Just got home: no questions asked just go straight to work. You can also add some elements of BDSM to this scenario as well, think blindfold and wrist restraints...

3. Watching TV: no need to pause, see how long it takes for them to lose interest in what they were watching, in fact, you can issue a challenge.

4. During a meal: why wait for dessert, just slide under the table and move on from the main course.

Sex should be fun and a safe place to explore, and while the ideas I have presented are somewhat generalized, there are so many ways to expand on them depending on your personal likes and dislikes. I hope these inspire you and bring a little spice into your love life!