How To Make You Ex- Boyfriend (Or Husband) Fall back in Love With You

In this tale, we'll explore the subject of rekindling your marriage with your husband and fortifying the roots of your family. This is going to take you to a much higher level than the crazy social media videos you typically see on topics like "seven ways to reconnect with your husband" and similar subjects because they address marriage on such a surface plane that they simply don't work.

No matter how sincere you are or how hard you try to follow the advice of those who lay out what they will call seven perfect ways or whatever, they don’t work because we live in a society where marriage isn't understood, whether it be American, British, or any other culture to which we may belong, neither you nor them are to blame for this.

This article explains how to make your ex-boyfriend or husband fall back in love with you again so if you are hoping to get a second chance with your ex and you want them to fall head-over-heels for you and beg to have you back There are few very important facts that you need to be aware

Fact #1:

You have a significant advantage and cause for optimism. The fact that you KNOW your ex has already loved you in the past provides you a tremendous advantage over anyone else who might be interested in your ex. When you initially started dating and were in the "honeymoon phase," your ex was probably madly in love with you at some point.

This is wonderful news, of course, as it confirms that you and your ex are compatible; and you just need to become the same person your ex fell in love with back when you were together. There's some more good news as well, you already have shared happy positive memories and that's something that you can use to help you make your ex fall in love with you again.

Fact #2:

Remember romantic attraction is not a choice. A lot of people fall into the trap of trying to talk their way back into their ex’s heart. That’s never going to work most of the time, It will only make things worse and make your ex feel even less attractive to you. However, while attraction and love aren't sentiments we choose to experience, they are also feelings and emotions that we are unable to control or overcome by reason or logic. Simply because your ex offered you valid reasons for breaking up—reasons like, "I just don't have the time to devote to a relationship right now" or "I'm busy with my new job and having to move to another state"

we simply can't continue to be a couple. These aren't obstacles that you need to overcome to get your ex back. If you can make him feel that romantic attraction again, these things won't matter if you make him feel deeply in love with you, and his affection for you will outweigh any of their worries.

Now that we've got those two important facts out of the way let's look into some of the techniques that you can use to make your ex fall back in love with you.

Step #1: Let your Ex go (for now)

The unfortunate reality is that by this point, your ex has at least partially lost his feelings for you. As we've already seen, there are no magic words to change his feelings for you.Trying to get your ex to change his mind by doing or saying something right after you broke up will backfire and make things worse. That means no begging, no pleading, no repeated apologies, no sending gifts, and no writing long love letters.

In essence, you're just going to have to acknowledge the reality of your situation and let your ex leave without trying to stop him for the time being. You must understand that getting your ex back will be a difficult process that involves numerous steps, with this period of letting go serving as the first one. This may sound a little counterintuitive at first.

Even though it could be difficult, try not to take any immediate action to win him back. If you haven't already done so, now is the time to use the no-contact strategy because it is the fact and you cannot change it. This fits very well with the second phase, which is to start over completely.

Step #2: Wipe the slate clean & start fresh.

Re-establishing their perception of you is the second step in getting your ex to love you again. In essence, when your ex thinks of you and your time together as a relationship, their thoughts are immensely depressing at the moment, or at the very least, they perceive you as "the past" rather than a component of their future. You must alter that if you want to get him back. There are several ways you may do this, but one of the best ways is to just start acting more independent and self-assured.

I know this seems, on the surface, like crazy psychobabble, but I promise that once your ex sees the "new you," many of the negative traits or acts that you were displaying immediately before and after the breakup will start to fade away, and he will start to view you in a more positive light.

At the beginning of your relationship, when your ex first fell in love with you, you had a lot of positive qualities and traits. However, ever since the breakup and possibly in the weeks and months before it, you have been acting in ways that your ex considered unattractive. Although it almost always is, this could have been completely inadvertent and subconscious, therefore you now need to slowly and carefully bring those old habits back to the fore.

Before we continue to step three, keep in mind that by employing the no contact strategy, your Ex will also be able to let go of some of his unfavorable memories and emotions. The simple act of leaving your ex alone for a while will undoubtedly help to change the way they perceive you because, according to research, people are built to hold on to pleasant ideas and memories much more than bad ones.

Step #3 - Plant the seeds of desire and attraction.

By carrying out the first two steps just mentioned, you will be well on your way by, starting to change your Ex's unpleasant perception of you. Now, it's time to gradually send your ex psychological messages proving that you are still the attractive, outgoing, and charismatic person he remembers from when you first met.

This is when things start to become challenging and a lot of people stumble or make errors. Initially, you must be careful to avoid being too obvious or moving too soon. While the idea is to drop hints about your exciting new life and showcase the qualities and traits that your ex was initially drawn to, you cannot move too rapidly.

In my earlier article, I mentioned that subtlety is important.There are a few various ways to help sow these "seeds of desire" in your ex's mind, and one of my favorite methods is to send texts that make your ex think of pleasant times you two have had together. Always make sure you get the time and context of the message correct when you send these types of messages to your ex to bring pleasant shared memories to the forefront of their mind and make them crave for those "good old days."

If you text your ex about it, you should have a logical, justifiable reason for doing so, and it should appear to your ex that you are only doing so for that reason; otherwise, your ex may figure out your true motives, which will entirely negate whatever beneficial effect the message could have had. The time has come to arrange a face-to-face encounter once you've begun to sow these seeds in your ex's head and have successfully started to change his perspective of you. This is vital, but you must also exercise caution because you must complete this task properly.The most crucial aspect of this situation is that you need to initially portray yourself as a friend.

When you suggest meeting up in person, your Ex would probably reject your suggestion if they believe you want to have a romantic relationship. Even if they genuinely want to see you, they may be worried that doing so will make them feel bad or push them to do something they don't want to, like get physical again or ask if you want to give the relationship another chance. You should take care to avoid giving your ex the impression that this meeting is a "date" to avoid embarrassing them.To accomplish this, create a "cause" for a face-to-face encounter.

There are numerous justifications you can use to accomplish this, such as saying to your ex that you need travel advice since you are organizing a trip to Spain this summer or that you need interior design ideas because you are remodeling a new apartment.Select a justification that works for both you and your position and won't come across as odd or improbable.

And finally, when you do see your ex, make sure to have fun with them.Make your ex laugh. Tell interesting stories. Flirt like crazy and rebuild your true natural charm. Remember that your ex is currently tired of the old, so your goal is to reignite the "spark" of attraction. You can even act as though you've just met him to keep things seeming "fresh" or "interesting."

One last piece of advice before we wrap up this article is to ALWAYS keep interactions with your ex humorous and engaging. NEVER get sucked into drama or arguments, never have meaningful conversations about your relationship or breakup, and never reveal your genuine intentions or desire to get back together until you've finalized the deal and are once again together. Until then, keep the atmosphere fun and upbeat, and make the most of your flirting games. Take the time to learn about your situation and maximize your chances of repairing your relationship with your ex.