Friendship
Sometimes. Content Warning.
Introduction I was just thinking about the benefits of actually talking to people about nothing in particular and how it can make you feel so much better. This may be just me, because, as you know on Vocal, I do love attention, and in a one-to-one conversation I have your complete attention. These are just some of the ways it benefits me, and maybe you too.
By Mike Singleton 💜 Mikeydred 3 years ago in Confessions
The Phoeniw Within Her
In the tapestry of my life, there’s a woman whose presence radiates resilience and strength like the mythical dragon, yet harbors a tender heart akin to a phoenix rising from the ashes. Her name is Rachel, and she has been the guiding light in my darkest moments, igniting hope when all seemed lost.
By Ryan Kubera3 years ago in Confessions
What friendship breakups feels like?
Have you ever been through the storm of a friendship breakup, only to hear dismissive remarks like, "Come on, you were just friends"? It's a refrain all too familiar, a reflection of the widespread misunderstanding of what a genuine friendship can be . what others neglect is just like the end of a romantic relationship, the end of a friendship requires a period of mourning. You may find yourself struggling with a range of emotions – sadness, anger, confusion, and even relief. It's okay to mourn the loss of what was once a significant part of your life, and it's essential to give yourself permission to feel and process these emotions fully. you are going to miss them,to hate them ,to start thinking about your memories , you will blame yourself and cry your eyes out for losing them .Their memory will haunt you for certain time , we can't forget such a close person in one or two days , don' expect that and it's totally okay ; we are humans after all and feelings can sometimes be out of control .Moreover, friendship breakups can impact one's social circle and sense of belonging. Mutual friends may feel torn between loyalty to both parties or may take sides, leading to feelings of isolation or loneliness. It can be challenging to navigate social situations where your former friend is present, especially if there are unresolved tensions or lingering feelings of hurt.But believe me this ain't the end it's only a fresh start and yes i admit it it's a very tough one. Navigating the terrain of a former best friend can be a journey filled with emotional turbulence, but it's also an opportunity for profound growth and self-discovery. Forgive don't wait for an appology cause forgiving ensure the move on , don't ressent your former friend no one is perfect so you are and remember that you may not see the things from the same point.As time passes and the sting of the loss begins to fade, you'll find yourself at a crossroads – do you dwell on what's been lost, or do you embrace the possibilities that lie ahead? While it's too normal to look back on the memories shared with an EX best friend, it's essential not to let nostalgia hold you back from embracing new connections and experiences. Moving forward doesn't mean forgetting or invalidating the bond you once shared; rather, it's about honoring the past while embracing the present and future. However, it's crucial to know that wishing them well doesn't mean a desire to rekindle the past. Instead, it's about letting go of the past with grace, holding onto the memories that shaped you, and sincerely wishing them nothing but the best as they continue along their path. You may think that what i am saying is something impossible and hard to believe but i've been through that before and i know what a friendship breakup looks like . Not a lot of people will tell you this but losing a friend that used to be a part of your daily life is kinda painful but you are strong enough to handel this pain. It's alright to cry, to think about texting them, to wonder if they are doing well or if you ever cross their minds , What is essential is to move forward and knock on new doors! Take a piece of paper ,write down you feelings and talk you yourself like you have never done before and then burn it and im sure that you will feel a million way better .So, dear reader, take heart in the knowledge that every ending is a new beginning in disguise, and the best is yet to come and don't forget that you are not alone.
By Tassnim Naffeti3 years ago in Confessions
My Lady Alpha
There are women who inspire me with their compassion and determination. British activist Helen Bamber was one, working with young Holocaust survivors at the end of the Second World War, when she was little more than a teenager herself, and once in the UK creating the charity that we now call Freedom From Torture. Leah Tsemel is a more recent example – the Israeli lawyer who battles for the rights of Palestinians again and again, and is defeated again and again, and still keeps going. But I have never met either of these admirable ladies. The dragon I want to talk about is someone who has been with me in body and spirit for over twenty years of my life, and her support has enabled me to stretch out my hand and support others.
By Katie John3 years ago in Confessions
Dua For Love: The Power of Dua For Love
Unlocking Hearts: The Power of Dua For Love Love, the ethereal force that binds us, transcends the ordinary. It’s a universal language that resonates with every soul. But what if your heart is yearning for more? What if you’ve lost the spark or are seeking a deeper connection? Fear not, for there’s a profound remedy that spans across cultures and faiths — the transformative practice of Dua for Love.
By Molvi Abdul Khan3 years ago in Confessions
Women Who Inspire Me: Ashlyn Hodges (my best friend)
During Women’s History Month it’s important to make note of all the women who inspire us. These women are our mothers, sisters, grandmothers, wives or girlfriends. Sometimes these women are even our best friends. An influential women in my life who definitely keeps me going is my best friend, Ashlyn Hodges aka Hodgy.
By Joe Patterson3 years ago in Confessions
Sweet Maya
The city hums below me, a blur of headlights and hurried steps. Perched on the rooftop of my tiny apartment building, I feel a million miles from the noise, a million miles from everything. The air is cool tonight, a bittersweet caress after a day that was more ache than anything else. It's been three years. Three years since Maya.
By SkyeLi3 years ago in Confessions
I was unable to find true love, i ventured into hookup. Content Warning.
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By 18 plus home3 years ago in Confessions
The Power of Confession: Healing and Transformation
In a world where vulnerability is often seen as a weakness, the act of confession stands out as a powerful tool for healing and transformation. Confession, in its essence, is the act of acknowledging one's faults, mistakes, or sins. While traditionally associated with religious practices, confession has a much broader application in our daily lives, offering a path to emotional, mental, and spiritual growth.
By BLESSING COOL 3 years ago in Confessions
Lie To Me. Issue #5. Content Warning.
Working in the casino taught me many, many, things, I met many peers that taught me some important lessons I carry to this day. I made new friends, and lost those friends, I met a kindred spirit (we will call him Brandon). Brandon was kind, he was funny, he was lost. We almost instantly hit it off through our humor, we shared the same perspective on life, he had endured his own hardships somewhat similar to mine. We simply differed on one aspect; Brandon wanted to find someone to settle down with while I was wanting to be alone at least for the time being. We would call each other when we were too much in our own heads. For some reason we could just talk each other down like it was second nature. Brandon and I worked the same shifts, we took the same breaks, and we would hang outside of work. He got me into exercising properly, taught me that we can just laugh for no reason no harm in that, we taught each other resiliency.
By (JERJ) Thudd Walker3 years ago in Confessions
