The sense of security of adults is always given by themselves

In life, everyone is trying to find security, but the harder the search, the more the inner insecurity. Always looking for security from outside, but ignore their own ability. Because adults give themselves security.

In love, many women always want men to give a sense of security, life always rely on men. As a result, I lost myself in marriage. In fact, the more independent a woman is, the easier it is for a man to appreciate and respect her. Therefore, women in marriage should not only be economically independent, but also independent in thinking.

Life is your own. You have to take responsibility for your own life. If he is attached to others, his life is doomed to failure. In the journey of life, he should learn to grow constantly and have the ability to deal with problems by himself. Only in this way can his life be complete, and he can also give himself a sense of security in materials and have the confidence to live.

Often hear people say, their good insecurity, also feel anxious. This is actually a lack of independence in life, too much expect others to take care of. Without the ability of independence, people can not control themselves. It's all up to other people.

People lack of security, the reason is often too much rely on others, their fate to others. When others pull away from your care and dependence, you lose your ability to live. As people often say, "the mountains to fall, rely on everyone will run", only on their own, that is the most true.

Others to give again good, also only temporary, because the initiative is in the hands of others, only really rely on their own struggle out of the brilliant is permanent. If you want to have a sense of security, you must know how to practice yourself constantly in life, learn constantly, and enrich your heart with knowledge. Only in this way can we give ourselves a sense of security.

In the relationship, don't expect too much from your partner, don't rely so much, when there is emotional betrayal, the hurt will not be so big, in the career is the same, expect too much from the company or colleagues. Then you won't be anxious about changes at work. Because you're strong enough to handle it.

People who love themselves can cope with being alone and know how to cut their losses when a relationship goes wrong. Not because of loss and sad sad. People who know how to love themselves can better love others. So adults, if they want to feel safe, they need to learn to be strong and independent emotionally and professionally. To get a sense of security that really belongs to you.

We live in a time of rapid change, and insecurity is normal. It's all about how we balance that security. Some people say that the sense of security is given by money, so it is a realistic word, life is a cost, want to live independently, the first thing is to have an independent economic ability.

Have the ability to feed themselves, they are no longer afraid of losing, not afraid of love betrayal, in the cause is can follow one's inclinations. So it's important for both men and women to make money, and it's important to keep improving yourself. The ability is strong, the money in the hand, the lack of security will be cured.

Adult friendships with friends are meant to last. Need to treat each other sincerely, only sincere friendship is unbreakable. Such feelings are worth cherishing because they are full of each other's sincerity. Can make each other feel at ease. That's how you'll feel safe in the long run.

Their own life, their own sense of security to obtain, this life can be steadfast and peaceful. Understand that no relationship can give you the security you want. In reality, whether it is love, friendship or family love, it is necessary to operate, and it takes time and energy to maintain. So it's easy to lose that sense of security. That's why adults give themselves security.

Life is changeable, things are uncertain, there are too many mutations in life, are we can not anticipate. But if before the change comes, try to enrich yourself, give yourself the greatest sense of security. That even if life is difficult, but also can face.

Life is not forever unchanged, no one will not change your heart for a lifetime, only their own is a lifetime to rely on, so their own strong is the most important. Insecure people, can only constantly ask for from others. So it always hurts. So you're the only person who feels safe as an adult, and you're the only person you can depend on, so all you have to do is see yourself. From strength to strength. To have a perfect life.