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The real end of a relationship is not blocking or deleting

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By Brian Wong Published about a month ago 2 min read

When we talk about love, we are exploring an emotion that transcends words, a power rooted deep in our hearts. It is like a seed, growing carefully and thriving into the most lush branches in the soul. Love is not a simple sensory stimulation, it is a spiritual fit, a soul resonance, and one of the most beautiful gifts we can find in this world.

As Rabindranath Tagore said in "The Birds": "If you cry because you have lost the sun, you will also lose the stars." This sentence profoundly reveals the essence of love: it is the sunshine in our lives and the source of our love. Motivation and hope to move forward. The end of love is not the end, but a transformation. It is like a key, opening the door to the depths of our souls, allowing us to face the challenges of life more bravely and experience the meaning of life more deeply.

In the long river of love, everyone is an explorer, and every relationship is a journey, full of changes in scenery and ups and downs of life. Sometimes, we realize the importance of persistence and belief in the rough waves; sometimes, we realize the true meaning of tolerance and understanding on the calm lake. Psychologist Freud once explored the complexity of emotions in depth. He pointed out that there are countless emotional clues hidden in the human subconscious, which closely connect our past, present and future. Only when we understand and accept the complexity of these emotions can we truly free ourselves to transcend the shadows of the past and embrace new possibilities.

Let’s review the immortal love described in Marquez’s One Hundred Years of Solitude. In this work, the love between Aureliano and Úrsula is described as a century-old watch. Even if the years go by and the world changes, their love is still like an eternal hymn in the family memory. This story tells us that true love is eternal and will not disappear because of the passage of time. It is like the words in the story, imprinted on every page of our lives, becoming our strength and courage to move forward.

Returning to the essence of emotion, Ostrovsky once said: "The farthest distance in life is not between life and death, but when I stand in front of you and you don't know that I love you." The end of the relationship may It brings pain and loss, but more often than not, it is another beginning, an opportunity for self-growth and transformation. Facing the coming and going of relationships, what we need to learn is not to simply delete and block them, but to understand, appreciate and cherish those moments that once made us laugh and cry. Because every ending is the beginning of a new story, the starting point for us to start again, and proof that we are more mature and stronger.

In this world, love is one of the most precious treasures in our lives. It not only gives us warmth and comfort, but also makes us more complete and beautiful. Let us be grateful and hopeful, and firmly believe in the power of love, let it become an eternal beacon in our lives, illuminate the way forward, and guide us to a better future.


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Brian Wong

Hello, I'm Brian Wong , a 29-year-old aspiring writer dedicated to weaving captivating stories that resonate with the depths of human experience.

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  • Alex H Mittelman about a month ago

    Great work!

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