Psychology: People who know how to present themselves are more likely to be favored by love

Love needs to be expressed. You don’t tell the other person your love, even if the other person has a good impression on you, he will not know what you really think.

In love, people who are confident and sunny are always more popular than those who are depressed and pessimistic, because the latter only knows how to feel sorry for themselves, while the former knows how to present themselves.

In psychology, there is a saying called "self-presentation", which means that when others pay attention to themselves, they consciously do the behavior that the other party expects and say what the other party likes to listen to, so that it can leave a good impression on the other party.

When pursuing love, people who know how to present themselves are often positive and optimistic. They can give each other a feeling of sunshine and affinity, and create a good space for the future development of the relationship between the two.

People who know how to present themselves are more likely to be favored by love.

1. Not knowing how to express yourself is a great pity in love.

Love a person must be expressed. Two people who like each other but are ashamed to express, the love between them is very likely to feel regret because of missing it.

When I was a student, I saw such a story in a magazine:

There is a boy who likes girls in the same class. The boy is very introverted. The way he expresses his love to the girl is also invisible. For example, he will secretly do a lot of things for the girl behind her and see the girl and other boys. When he walked very close, he would secretly get jealous and angry.

Because he was afraid of being rejected by the girl, he never dared to express his love to the girl. It was not until the girl had a boyfriend when she graduated from college that the boy mustered up the courage to confess himself to the girl.

The girl rejected him and said something that he will never forget. The girl said:

If you confessed to me earlier, if I am still single, I will consider agreeing to your request. However, I already have a boyfriend now. I'm sorry, I can't agree to you. Please remember, if you like anything else in the future Girl, you must speak up.

Although I can’t remember exactly which magazine I read at the time, this story is still fresh in my memory.

Indeed, if you love someone, you have to express it. If you don’t express it, the other person will probably miss each other and leave life-long regrets.

In love, not knowing how to express yourself is a pity.

Second, know how to express yourself, it is easier to get love.

In love, people with high EQ will gain the favor of each other by expressing themselves.

The movie "Men Hundred Percent" tells us the story of a man who obtained a double harvest of career and love by understanding women and expressing himself.

Nick is a clerk in an advertising company. He is mediocre. He doesn't know how to think from the perspective of others. An accident gave Nick the ability to understand women's minds. At first, this ability scared him. Later, he took advantage of this. Ability is on the rise.

Being able to understand women’s minds makes Nick no longer use his subjective views to think about problems. He knows how to understand women’s difficulties with empathy, and expresses himself along the lines of thoughts in women’s hearts. Nick has gained a lot of women. Among them, Nick’s boss Darcy is included.

Nick had a tense relationship with Darcy, but through his mind-reading skills, he understood Darcy's thoughts and the difficulty of her situation.

After understanding Darcy's true thoughts, Nick expressed his own feelings along Darcy's thoughts. In the end, after many communications, the two had a love.

In my opinion, if it were not because Nick understood Darcy and expressed himself to Darcy, not only would the two not love each other, but the relationship between them would continue to be tense and there would be no room for relaxation.

Love requires two-way communication. A person who does not know how to express himself will miss love because he is too restrained, and those who know how to express themselves are more likely to reap love.

Third, love is a two-way rush, not a solo dance, it needs to talk to each other.

Love is a matter for two people. Even if you love each other again, if you don't express yourself to each other and get the other's response, then it is not love, at best it is a secret love.

I watched a movie called "The Little Thing of First Love" two days ago. In the movie, the heroine Xiao Shui has a crush on her senior, A Liang. In fact, A Liang also likes Xiao Shui in his heart, just because they don’t have each other. Confessed to each other, so both of them missed their best relationship during their student years.

Love is a matter of two people. If you like one person, you must know how to express your love to each other in order to get the other's response. Otherwise, it will not be regarded as love. A solo dance of one person can only be regarded as a secret love.

I have heard such a sentence, expressing love to the other party, you still have the chance to succeed, if you don't express yourself to the other party, you don't even have the chance to succeed.

I deeply believe that in love, only those who are confident and optimistic and know how to express themselves will have a greater chance of reaping love.

From a psychological point of view, knowing "self-presentation" and showing one's love, strengths, and affinity to the one you love will make it easier to get the favor of love.

Love is a two-way rush. In love, people who do not know how to express themselves often miss love. Only by showing love bravely can they finally hold love in their hands.

If you love someone, bravely show yourself in front of him!