Do your own doctor

In the flood of life, there are calm winds and waves, and even rough waves and difficulties.

The real maturity of a person is to be a good doctor and heal yourself.

Just like the gecko's broken tail rebirth, the plant's self-repair, are a self-healing.

The same is true for people, to self-heal, self-repair, in the stormy life, live as their own sun.

1. In this world, there are no people who do not carry injuries.

The actual fact is that you will not be able to get a good deal on any person.

We have to go all the way through the thorns, through five hurdles, running with wounds is the norm in life.

For example, everyone will inevitably have such moments.

Aggravated at work, it seems painless, but the accumulation of day after day, will also make you tired of it.

Trouble in life, it is not enough to say, but often entangled in trivial matters, will also make you tired;.

The conflict in the relationship, sounding harmless, but the accumulation of disappointment hard, but also will make you all over the body.

Always involuntarily wondering what is wrong with you?

As adults, we carry the responsibility and pressure of having too heavy, and there are too many doubts and confusion in our hearts.

But simmering for a long time will be bitter, tighten the collapse will be tired, tolerate more will be resentful, the heart of the grievances, the backlog of emotions, always at some point spill out.

If you collapse and give up, from then on, is the beginning of your misfortune.

Only continuous self-healing, gritting your teeth through, is the gift of your fate.

Stop and rest when you are tired, but never fall down, no matter how muddy the road beneath your feet, go forward step by step and seek inner healing.

2. Learning to heal yourself is a must for adults.

Always believe that there is goodwill on earth, there is always someone who will help you a time when you need it, pull you a hand.

But there is no permanent haven, ferryman, and you can not always seek solace from others.

The only one who can really heal himself in the storm of fate is yourself.

Maupassant wrote in "The Lamb's Nest".

"Sometimes I may be so fragile that a word will bring tears to my eyes; sometimes, too, I find myself gritting my teeth and walking a long way."

In the world of adulthood, two things happen every day: breakdown and self-healing.

Life is not that good, but also not that bad, your vulnerability and strength, in fact, are beyond imagination.

The way of life, each have their own injuries, each have their own pain, all the taste, are life.

The actual fact is that there is no mountain that can't be crossed, no hurdle that can't be crossed, and no knot that can't be solved.

The actual fact is that you will be able to learn to heal yourself, is a mandatory course of study for adults, is also a lifetime practice.

The only people that life can cure are those who are willing to heal themselves.

In "The Shawshank Redemption" it says.

"Everyone is his or her own God. If you give up on yourself, who else will save you?"

There is no difficulty that can bring you down, unless you surrender yourself first.

As long as you do not admit defeat and do not get discouraged, fate will never be able to beat you down.

Because, life can heal, but also those who are willing to get better, can take the initiative to heal themselves.

The world is always difficult to complete, there is always a lack of life, but all the healing, but also rely on their own strength.

I like what Romain Rolland said: "There is only one kind of heroism in the world, and that is to recognize the truth of life and still love life."

Life is a mixture of sadness and joy, but hope, is given to yourself, if you look to the sun, why fear sadness?

People do not help themselves, the sky is difficult to help, the years can heal, is willing to self-healing people, is to the good heart.

If you want to heal the wounds and losses inside, you must take responsibility for your own life and take the first bold step forward.

Heard a story. Someone asked Buddha, "You are infinitely powerful, why don't you change the world for the better? Why don't you come to ferry us?"

Buddha said, "People are future Buddhas and Buddhas are future people; I can't tide you over; only by healing yourself can you become a Buddha."

Facing the harm in life, it is better to ask others than to ask yourself, only by yourself can you heal your life and change your fate.

By learning to heal yourself, you can awaken your inner strength, conquer all the sufferings and difficulties, and become your own savior.