Confidence is to see yourself as you are

Many people are eager to be confident, and the essence of self-confidence is to see the inherently sufficient self. This is a very important milestone for our growth.

When you realize your inner sufficiency, you will find the root of self-confidence. If we want to discover our self-sufficiency, there are three ways we can continue to grow.

The first area is that every life is unique

The first important awareness we need to build to discover our sufficiency, in one way or another, is to realize that every life is unique.

When you read about the uniqueness of life, you may understand that life is not formed through various human evaluations, but life is to be seen as unique.

If we are constantly judging ourselves and others in life, we cannot see the uniqueness of life, which is the key to saying goodbye to the panic of life.

If we want to be truly confident in ourselves, we have to learn to accept that we are unique. We may have some habits in our lives that are different from others, but it doesn't mean that we have a problem or that we are experiencing any problems.

Once we have the habit, we are not particularly internally consumed, but instead, we fully accept and feel peace.

A lot of the root cause of our internal depletion comes from our habit of comparing ourselves to others, and when we compare ourselves to others, we think we have all kinds of problems.

When you can realize the uniqueness of your life, you will fully feel the meaning and value of your existence.

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Second, explore with fearless courage

To have a naturally confident physique, the most important thing is to learn to explore with fearless courage. Li Bai once said, "Born to be useful, a thousand pieces of gold will come back to me.

Exploring with fearless courage is essentially a belief in self and an affirmation of self-worth. They deeply understand that their life will have their mission.

So to explore with fearless courage is not to be locked by fate around one's throat, but to truly take the courage to explore to pursue the path we want to take, then we can find a path that belongs to us.

A good life knows that if we keep moving forward, we will find our way. If we are always in doubt, then it is difficult for us to come out of a path of our own.

We are always afraid of the future and think the future is scary, but the truth is the future is the present later. Do you feel that the present is scary? If we can live well in the present moment and live in the present, we are not so afraid.

True growth is the process of continuous breakthroughs. When you are willing to keep exploring with confidence and courage, you will find that life is never a result, life is a process.

The more you care about the result, the easier it is for you to be bound by the result. The more you are attentive to the process, the more you can find ways and means to refine and practice life.

Self-confidence is to explore with the attitude that life is self-sufficient, then our life will move in the right direction.

Third, live in the way you like best

The essence of self-confidence is to live in the way you like best. When you read and understand the essence of self-confidence is that our nature is self-sufficient and we do not ask for anything from outside. Then you may understand that a good life is to live in the way you like best.

What is to live in the way you like best is to find the best distance between yourself and society. One should not be too worldly or too out of the world when living in this world. People who are too worldly are too easily taken seriously and hurt themselves.

And those who are too out of the world will lose their interest and love for the earth. So for us to live in the way we like best, we have to find what we like to do best and give our best to ourselves, but not care too much about the outcome.

When you let go of caring about the outcome, you don't suffer from the process of life, but instead, focus consistently on the process of life. What life can get is the process.

And the result is obtained in the refinement of the process. The growth of every life comes from the discovery and exploration of ourselves within us.

If we explore to the best of our ability, we will find that God has a place for us where we belong and that our beautiful lives will only fully unfold if we are willing to let go of those worries and fears of life and move through those fears.

If we want to be confident, if we want to be a fulfilled person, the most important thing is to explore life and continue to grow with the attitude that we are already fulfilled.