Child Psychology

Parents believe that there are many aspects of their children's education that they think about. In addition to how their children behave in school, there are also many behavior sides of the school that is important as children grow up.

For a woman, the quality of her children's lives can be seen in the quality of her outward life, and vice versa. If a child respects his or her mother, it is evidence that the child is being raised well.

The relationship between mother-child relationship and attachment patterns

According to child psychologists, individuals develop certain attachment patterns during their early years, and this dependency creates a strong bond with the person who takes care of them.

As the saying goes, mother and child are one, especially in the traditional Chinese view, the child's birthday is equivalent to the mother's Good Friday. Therefore, the mother's image will play a very important role in the process of the child's growth. Naturally, as the child's closest, initial role model, the mother's words and actions will also have an important role in the child's example.

The mother's character and actions and words have a significant impact on the individual's subsequent growth.

As a child, one day they will grow up, and when they leave their parents to face society and start a family on their own, they will live with their personalities.

As an adult, the "first lesson" in life is often higher education, such as college. At this point, people will face a problem called "separation anxiety", which is the kind of panic that occurs when you leave your family and familiar people.

This reaction will be different depending on the personality of the individual to produce different performances, some people will cry, and some people will not express it.

If the mother can provide enough security to her children in the process of the mother-child relationship, so that the children are in a more secure state, then this anxiety will be much better. At the same time, they can also make a better start in a new life.

Many children have very violent reactions when this situation first arises. But in some families, there are situations where the parents are very spoiled for their children, providing them with all the conditions they can.

This makes the child less capable of living on his or her own, and once he or she leaves the parents, he or she will be in a state of confusion and even unable to live on his or her own.

This type is completely different from the previous situation, where the child is defiantly dependent on the parent. The absence of their parents is almost fatal to them.

Since they are often pampered by their parents, they do not have to solve many problems themselves, so their ability to deal with problems and resilience is relatively weak, and they tend to cry and fall into helplessness when faced with problems.

Of course, there are other kinds of children, for various reasons, they are brought up by their grandparents, and their relationship with their parents is not particularly close, so when they are separated from their parents, they often do not generate any special emotions.

So on the one hand, they face a long period in their life the lack of maternal love, but on the other hand, they will gradually become independent in the process of growth and can face many problems alone.

So for us, we only need to observe the child's reaction to the separation from his or her parents to know how the relationship between the two generations will be.

Children's attitude toward their mothers reflects their status

Children are often young and immature until they reach adulthood, and they tend to follow their parents' ways of dealing with many things.

If a family has a close and respectful relationship between the parents, the child will often see that the two of them have a good relationship and will have the view that this is the way it should be between husband and wife.

However, in some families, there are cases where the father is too strong and the mother has a lower status, or the mother is stronger and the father is more fearful, and the child will form this view accordingly so that when he builds his own family, he will also "follow the example" and become stronger or weaker.

This is the effect of simple behavior on children, do not underestimate this influence.

In those families where the mother has a high status and the father is relatively silent, the mother's status will be very high, and there will even be a sense of "authority".

So the children who grow up in such families tend to be more restrained and orderly because of this "authority", and will also be more orderly in their treatment of others, gaining better popularity.