When She’ll Turn 14 Years Old.

Our dreams, especially those of us girls, are to raise a family, have children, and enjoy a fulfilling life.

But in this complex environment, raising children — especially daughters — is a difficult task.

As we watch them grow daily, a lot of issues cross our minds: their wants and issues, their schooling, their social lives, their marriage, etc.

The reason I wrote this poem was because, at the age of 14, I was having a lot of trouble with little things in my life. These issues had to do with my schooling, my social life, or you can say everything.I have a great mother, she raised me and took care of everything I needed. However, I feel like something was lacking because I didn’t tell her everything and spent the majority of the time dealing with things on my own. That is my fault, not hers.

My daughter needs to know that I am her greatest friend and that I am always there for her. I also want her to think she is the nicest girl at this age.

I’ll give her this advice on her 14th birthday:

To my dear daughter at fourteen years old,

In this journey of life, let my words unfold.

Advice I’ll impart, with love ever true,

Guidance to carry, as you venture anew.

First, my child, embrace your unique light,

Let your spirit shine, bold and bright.

In a world of trends, and pressures untold,

Stay true to yourself, let your story unfold.

Seek knowledge eagerly, like a thirsty stream,

Let curiosity guide you, like a hopeful dream.

Embrace learning’s journey, with each new day,

For wisdom is power, lighting your way.

Cherish friendships deeply, like precious gold,

In their warmth and laughter, you’ll find strength untold.

But choose wisely, dear one, the company you keep,

True friends uplift you, in times of dark and deep.

Be kind and compassionate, to all you meet,

In small acts of kindness, your soul finds its beat.

For in lifting others, you’ll uplift your own heart,

And create a world where love plays its part.

Take risks, my dear, dare to chase your desires,

In courage and resilience, your spirit aspires.

For growth lies beyond comfort’s cozy embrace,

In challenges faced, you find your grace.

And remember, my child, as you navigate life’s sea,

Your worth is inherent, just as you be.

In moments of doubt, know you’re never alone,

For my love surrounds you, like a comforting tone.

So heed these words, my darling, as you journey on,

Know that in you, a world of potential is drawn.

For you are my treasure, my light, and my pride,

Forever by your side, as your guide and ally.

Lots Of Love From Your Mama

_Originally Published On My Medium Account_