Truth is expensive, don't give it to people who don't deserve it

Do you ask if I love you is worth it? You should know that love is not to ask whether it is worth it or not.

Love, without asking whether it is worth it, is a blind obsession, although touching, but lack rationality, and it is easy to be hurt and let down.

Truth is expensive and should not be given to people who do not deserve it. Otherwise, the deeper the love, the deeper the injury.

When you are young, with lone courage, fall in love regardless. Even if everyone is not optimistic, and even strongly opposed, still obsessed, like the love of the compulsion, willingly moth to the flame.

The moths to the flame of love, most of the miserable end. When a person is physically and mentally traumatized by love, they tend to become mature and sensible, from once romantic to realistic, no longer blindly accepting or paying. Even if you meet someone you like, you will seriously think about whether or not this person is worthy of your love.

The most important thing is that you can't afford to be in love with someone who isn't worth it, so forget it.

Perhaps someone will ask: what is not worth the person?

In my opinion, the following three kinds of people, are the most unworthy. Met, it is also best to go around.

01. feelings not dedicated to the person

Feelings, the most difficult is not the heart, but only for one heart, that is, as we often say, dedicated.

For both men and women, being dedicated to feelings is not an easy task. After all, you will meet many people in your lifetime. Sometimes, the person's appearance attracted you, the person's talent conquered you, in short, let your heart will not only one person.

The heartbeat is instinctive, restraint is a choice. An emotionally dedicated person, after choosing a person, will consciously avoid all the opposite sex who may make their heart flutter, and will actively stay away from relationships that may make them unable to hold on.

On the contrary, people who are not dedicated to their feelings, even if they choose you, will still be ambiguous with other people of the opposite sex, an opportunity to forget about it, the principle, the bottom line through the back of the mind.

The people who are not dedicated to their feelings, knowing that betrayal is not right, will still find reasons to convince themselves, such as life is too short, in time to enjoy. The reason for convincing oneself is that you will not feel guilty, so you will betray your other half again and again.

The emotionally inattentive people are often very good at flirting with the opposite sex, and it is easy to make the opposite sex move. So it is more important to understand: when you meet such a person, then the heart, then like, but also the robbery is not the edge.

02. No motivation of people

Motivation, for everyone, is very important.

With a motivated person together, life has motivation, the day has hope, and the future has hope.

If a relationship wants to be happy and long-lasting, two people must make progress together. If one person is working hard, the other person is lazy and unproductive, there will certainly be a lot of conflict and quarrels.

The reason why many lovers break up is that they do not see hope in each other. To put it plainly, the other party is not motivated, and can not progress on their own.

The motivation, is not overly ambitious, the pursuit of unrealistic dreams, but a clear perception of themselves, knowing their strengths and weaknesses, based on practical, constantly improve themselves.

Like software, every once in a while will be updated, optimize some bugs, add some features, and keep up with the trend of the times, in line with social development, so as not to be replaced by other software.

A person without motivation, just like a long period without updating the software, will eventually drown in the flood of time, not be needed, not remembered.

Some people are very motivated at the beginning, but after encountering setbacks and deep blows, they become devastated, and no one can help.

When a person loses motivation and becomes more and more decrepit, how does one not want to cheer up, then, already not deserve to be loved?

03. People with radical personalities

Different people have different personalities. Some people have mild personalities, some people have radical personalities.

A person with a mild personality, broad-minded, friendly, and who gets along with such people will be very comfortable, and very at ease.

People with radical personalities are narrow-minded, strong, and domineering, and will feel oppressed and suffocated when they get along with such people.

Whether you fall in love with a person with a bigoted personality or are loved by a person with a bigoted personality, it is a disaster.

If it is only a general personality bias, the main performance of the man is, macho, with all kinds of interference with women, and all kinds of constraints; the main performance of the woman is, sensitive and suspicious, unreasonable.

If it is a very serious personality bias, both men and women may make crazy things to do. For example, love but not destroyed, hurt by revenge, even at the expense of life.

When you meet someone with a bigoted personality, you must consider your relationship carefully. The rest of your life is long, don't pay your heart wrong and ruin a lifetime of happiness.

The pursuit of happiness always meets some wrong people, and sometimes looks away, so that the deep love injury, afraid to love again.

There is no need to lose confidence in love because of the failure and injury that was once there. Love is always beautiful, but you have to mature, with a sharper eye to distinguish the people you meet, think rationally, to judge, whether this person is worthy of your heart.

If, you meet these three people I mentioned, pay extra attention, and don't be misled by a moment of good feeling.

May everyone meet a worthy person, and have a happy and beautiful love.