The heart does not have your people do not bother

01.

The first thing you need to do is to get in touch with a person. The most important thing is that you can't help but take the initiative to contact a person who misses you.

Active contact is the most direct manifestation of caring for a person.

A friend, originally a very introverted, very reserved girl, even among friends is rarely active, are passively waiting for friends to find themselves. Later, she fell in love with a boy, and to chase love, she learned to take the initiative for the first time.

The boy was tall, thin, and handsome, with a cold personality and a sadness between his eyebrows, giving him a different feeling. The first time she saw him, she became curious about him.

Like a person, often from the curiosity of the beginning. She took the initiative to approach him and slowly get to know him as a friend. At first, he was indifferent to her and did not talk to her much. She was a little frustrated but unwilling to give up and kept trying to get his attention.

Gradually, his attitude towards her changed. Then later, the two became friends in the true sense of the word. She felt that the time was ripe, so she plucked up the courage to confess to him.

She said seriously in front of him, "I like you."

However, he didn't take it seriously at all, smiling and saying, "You're silly."

She repeatedly stressed that she was serious and asked him again if he liked himself. Instead of giving her an answer, he made an excuse to run away. She cried and thought about it all night, still undeterred.

She reassured herself that if he did not explicitly reject her, there was still a chance and she must not give up.

02.

The actual person, will not easily give up, as long as there is a trace of hope, and will be persistent in the end.

It is said that men chase women across the mountain, and women chase across the veil. But in her case, it is not so. She has been chasing after him since, but he has never been moved.

Perhaps not want to break her heart, perhaps for another reason, in short, he did not say he did not like her, nor accept her feelings, but said he did not want to fall in love, and will always treat her as a friend, but also reassured her that friendship than love long.

The more you don't get the answer you want, the more you're not happy, those days, she was torn, painful, like a madman. She called him, sent him messages, and even wrote emails, a write is thousands of words.

She hoped that her obsession would be exchanged for his touch. But the more persistent she was, the more he evaded, and later, she could not contact him at all.

She had no choice but to stop giving unnecessarily and survived a particularly difficult time alone.

When he reappeared, although she was very excited, she no longer dare to show half, afraid that once again he will be scared away, which even friends can not do.

She could not let go of him after all, even if it was just to be friends, or better than to lose contact completely.

Between them, there is no love, only her wishful chase. He did not accept her love, but he was still good to her, a very good friend.

It's just that it's too hard for her to pretend that it's okay when it's so hard to feel good about it. So, she did not contact him frequently. One, afraid to disturb him. The second is afraid of disappointment.

Gradually, they became "you do not look for me, I do not look for you" relationship, increasingly distant, distant.

How she hoped that he would take the initiative to talk to her, but she did not wait once ......

03.

The person who has you in mind will take the initiative to contact you.

The person who does not have you in mind, you take the initiative a hundred times, he will not take the initiative once.

The fact is that you will always be a friend it is just a pretext. The actual friends, how will not even a greeting?

So, facing a person who does not have you in mind, stop bothering.

The fact is that you will not be able to get a good deal on your own.

In the relationship, not all of the payments can be exchanged for touch. Not all of the persistence, there will be results.

The people who like you, will not let you humble yourself. The people who love you, will not let you wait.

The person who doesn't like you, you are no longer humble, but also useless. The person who does not love you, you spend a lifetime waiting but also destined to an empty.

Love, can not be forced to come. Love, claims not. Think about it, look at it lightly, take your heart back and live your life well.

May you be able to take in the feelings, put them down, and never lose yourself because of a person.

Remember, there is no one in your heart, so don't bother. You are good and deserve better.