Mental Health
Not for the Likes
It began with a grin. A sun-kissed selfie taken at a precise angle with the caption, "Monday blues, but make it fashion." In seven seconds, the first like was received. Then fifty. Next, 300. She felt noticed. confirmed. Nearly... deserving. But the girl who had hardly slept was hiding behind that flawless pout and meticulously manicured glow. who wondered why she wasn't enough after spending hours looking through other people's highlight reels. who, fearing that bloating would ruin her figure for the next bikini photo, hadn't eaten a full meal in two days. This was no longer for amusement. The purpose of this was not to connect. This was not a creative exercise. This was war, a battleground of approval on the internet. Every post was a weapon, every post was like life support, and she was fighting. -- These days, being visible is valuable. where your value is frequently determined by the hearts on your picture, the number of people who view your reel, and the remarks you receive from strangers who will judge your smile, skin, and soul. People advise you to "just be yourself." But when the algorithm doesn't like you being yourself, how do you "be yourself"? Raw cannot be sold. Tears are not in style. No one shares stretch marks. Sponsorships don't come from authenticity.
By Tousif Arafatabout a year ago in Poets







