Silence, is a kindness

Growing up is not learning to express, but knowing how to swallow.

Sometimes a light-hearted comment hurts more than violence.

Read a quote, "Your evaluation of me does not constitute the millionth part of me, but a glimpse of yourself."

To judge others lightly not only does not show one's superiority but reveals shallowness and narrow-mindedness.

Never judge others lightly, because our capacity to know is limited and it is difficult to obtain all the information we have to evaluate others at will. Respect for others is also respect for yourself.

Everyone in this world is an individual, and not everything can be discussed.

In other people's lives, you can not understand, but should not point the finger; in other people's choices, you can not agree with, but at least maintain respect.

Not to speak lightly, not judging, not pointing fingers at other people's world, is the rarest cultivation in human nature.

What is true growth?

Someone said, "To grow up is to stop blaming anyone so easily. Because it begins to understand that everyone in this world has their difficulties, and we do not necessarily understand their lives."

A netizen has told her own experience.

After working, she shared a room with two girls. One day in the middle of the night, one of the roommates was crackling and packing in the living room, so she couldn't sleep.

The next day she was in the kitchen baking bread, but the roommate suddenly came over and emotionally accused her of always occupying the kitchen.

She was already angry, so she got angry and argued with him, and said a lot of nasty things.

The roommate went back to her room with red eyes and moved out not long after.

Soon after, the girl learned from another roommate that the girl's father had died last month. And that night, she hurriedly packed up, to rush home to see her father.

She regretted learning the original story and tried to apologize, but never got in touch with the other party.

The real growth of a person is to know how to be compassionate and not blame others.

The first thing you need to do is not to blame, which is not only a self-imposed discipline but also a self-imposed tolerance.

I read a question on the Internet: What thoughtless remark have you ever been hurt by someone?

Some people said they were teased by the boys in their class for being a "buck-toothed girl" because their teeth were not straight when they were young, and they have been afraid to open their mouths and smile for more than ten years.

Some people have known her for years, but in public, she was embarrassed about her embarrassing story, and she was upset about it for months.

The more you experience, the more you agree with the saying: "People who have no mouth are either uninvolved in the world or untouched by the storm."

Mature people, know when to be silent.

The fact is that you will not be able to reveal other people's embarrassment, not ask about other people's sadness, not disturb other people's happiness, is the emotional intelligence of the heart, but also the kindness of not moving.

Not judging others indiscriminately, not judging people easily, not gossiping behind people, and less thinking about how others are, are the practice of good people.

Growing up is not learning to express, but knowing how to swallow.

Controlling your mouth and keeping your heart is the top kindness of a person.

A person's maturity, from learning silence to start, those who make people feel comfortable ah people, never talk, shushing, but know how to know not to ask, see through not to say. The fact is that you will not be able to reveal other people's embarrassment, not to pursue other people's sadness, and not to disturb other people's happiness.