1. I wish your kisses felt like you meant it.
I don’t want kisses that feel like accidents,
like the way we might bump into strangers
or stumble over our words.
I don’t want kisses that feel the way
we lightly tap our friends’ shoulders,
or passive “thank yous” to cashiers at bodegas.
I want kisses that give me palpitations,
kisses that feel like there’s only so many left,
kisses that I have to explain
to friends and family alike.
I want kisses I can write poetry about;
not kisses I wish I could get.
2. I wish you asked me more questions.
Our dynamic was me listening,
visibly smitten
while you talked for hours.
I knew so much about you,
because I asked you many questions.
You were a quiet soul and a survivor of traumas,
both carrying and overcoming
hardships I could only imagine experiencing.
Our time together always felt like a little party
but it’s hard to feel like you’re at a party
…when you don’t feel invited.
3. I wish you could be a better wordsmith.
I’d never ask you to write poetry about me
but it would be nice if
after 3 months of seeing each other,
when I asked you
“what is it that you like about me?”
that you’d have more to say than just
“you’re chill, and down for anything.”
Maybe if you asked more questions
the answer wouldn’t be so hard to find.
4. I wish you’d touch me more.
Because holding my hand,
rustling my hair, and
resting your head on my shoulder,
half awake as we brushed our teeth
doesn’t take words.
It would just be nice if it happened more
than once.
5. I wish you’d let me be there for you.
On the day we met you didn’t hold back
to share nearly every suffering you’ve endured.
But I always found it strange that you
would find safety by keeping others
at bay, as if every weekend we spent together
wasn’t an invitation for you
to make a home out of me.
6. I wish you’d check in on me, not just when I was sick.
When I had salmonella on our Costa Rica trip,
the amount of times you checked on me
brought me so close to telling you
for the first time that I loved you.
I’d never felt more cared for.
I thought if you could prioritize me then
you’d surely do it again soon.
I was wrong.
7. I wish you were more verbal in bed.
I’m not saying you were silent
but a moan, a gasp, or a “fuck yes” would help.
Because honestly, giving a thumbs up
is not exactly the most encouraging feedback.
8. I wish you had texted me more often
If I had known that I’d go
days, up to a week not hearing
from you, I would’ve ended it sooner.
During all of that waiting
faithfully restraining myself
thinking it’d be best
not to bother you,
I had a lot of time on my hands
to realize the 5 things I was gaining
despite what I wished for.
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1. I learned to love my quality time alone.
I had low self-esteem.
After all, I didn’t think it was possible
for someone like you
to want someone like me.
I thought you were out of my league.
But you learned about my insecurities,
and you stayed anyway.
Now that we’re through, something clicked.
If you could be proud of me,
I could be proud of me.
2. I learned to stop limiting myself.
None of that coy shit.
If I think you’re cute, I’m gonna pursue you.
3. I’ve learned to ask for what I want.
When we were together,
I hardly asked for more out of us
out of fear that I’d shatter
the fragile fantasy I was finally living.
But now I realize
there’s nothing wrong with wanting
love to feel real.
4. I have more respect for you.
When you asked me if I wanted to see ghosts,
I didn’t think that at your hometown’s cemetery,
you’d be showing me a gravestone with one name
that belongs to me AND your late fiancé.
Since then I’ve learned
to cherish vulnerability,
and understand that death has a way
of making love immortal.
5. I learned to keep the door shut behind me.
Now that you’re gone
all the way out in Colombia,
I hope the bike trails there are challenging enough
to take your mind off what haunts you.
And I hope that you’ll understand someday
that letting someone love you
means letting someone hurt you.
I hope that I can avoid the latter after writing this.
Just wish I could have done the former.
About the Creator
DEUXQANE
93% of communication is non-verbal. Here's the other 7%.
I'm a licensed therapist. I love my kettlebell, steel mace, and rower. I've a soft spot for sci-fi, rollerblading, herbalism, poetry, drag race, EDM, and spending time in nature.
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Thank you for sharing this!❤️
This is phenomenal and insightful. Funny but poignant! Excellent reflection/poem. I couldn’t help but snigger at a couple of lines in context like, “you’re chill, and down for anything.” 😊