People who are concerned must be in frequent contact

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There are depths of feelings, and relationships are far and near, so how do determine whether a relationship is deep or shallow, a relationship is far or near?

The easiest way is to see if they are in regular contact with each other. Frequent contact with people, not necessarily deep feelings, close relationship. But deep feelings, and close relationships with the people, will certainly often contact. Unless there are compelling reasons, can not often contact, or never break the connection.

Many people have hundreds or even thousands of friends in their address book, but the people who are in regular contact come and go on that small part. As you can see, the really important people in life are very limited. Most people are only general friends, not friends, feelings are very shallow, and the relationship is very far.

Walking in the world, inevitably have to deal with all kinds of people, inevitably have to enter some circles, to participate in some social activities, some can make their growth of knowledge, some can make their gain contacts, but really can make friends with very few people, therefore, even in the prosperity, but also often feel lonely.

Some people say that loneliness is a normal part of life and we should all learn to get used to it.

However, if everyone thinks so, this already cold world will be more lack human feelings and become more and more cold and indifferent.

Therefore, people who care should often contact, take the initiative to contact, and let each other feel your concern and care. In this way, the world will be full of warmth and love.

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Whether it is family, or friendship, love, if not often contact, even if the feelings are still there, will be more or less alienated.

Some people are always in the field, every day is very busy, the rare spare time only wants to do something they like, and therefore do not often call their parents at home. Although parents miss their children, nothing will call, afraid to disturb their children's work or study.

Affection is the warmest, but also the most easily neglected, especially the children's concern for their parents, which is often relatively lacking.

There is a saying: "The tree wants to be quiet but the wind does not stop, the son wants to raise but the parents do not wait." The most important thing in the world that cannot wait is to do your filial duty. As a child, you must allocate some time to your parents as much as possible, contact them often, and care about their lives and health. Do not wait until they are old and gone to realize that they owe them too much.

The same is true among friends. The friends here, refer to the real heart-to-heart friends, such friends can not be found, and must be cherished. When you are busy, each busy, when you are free to chat, encounter difficult things to help, so it is enough.

Some people are used to being passive, do not like to take the initiative to contact anyone, more do not know how to care about people, this habit is not good, or try to change a change, after all, feelings are mutual, no one should be good to you, good to you people are not owed to you, but you are important in their hearts. If you care about them as well, contact them more, let the feelings warm up, and let the relationship more firmly.

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The most important thing in love is the interaction between two people. Whether it's a phone call, a message, or a date, it's all in the interaction. The more interaction, the better the relationship.

A lot of couples in love, can't wait to be together all the time, sometimes just a part, which has been very missed. However, after the hot period, the freshness of the past will be more and more indifferent, and even to various excuses to escape each other.

A reader complained that her boyfriend has been very depressed because of a difficult situation at home, and is reluctant to contact her, even if she takes the initiative to find him, he is extremely impatient, a few sentences after the temper. She was very hurt, but also gambled to stop looking for him, to see whether he still cared about her, and he did not contact her for a month.

When she was discouraged and ready to break up, he regretted it and tried to stay. After all, she still loves him, so she chose to forgive him. The only thing is, she became very insecure, lack of sufficient confidence in this emotion, and can only take one step to see one step.

The people in love are very sensitive, easy to suffer from loss, want emotional stability, and must be attentive to management, and careful maintenance. Not because of some objective reasons, or personal emotions, play disappears, not contact. You know, love can not afford to hurt, people can not afford to be cold, do not because of the impulse, let the people who love you hurt.

Remember, no matter what the situation is, is to keep in touch, and communicate well, only then two people can go farther.

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In the people who are concerned, to often contact. Contact is the expression of love, contact is the transmission of love.

Between family members often contact, will feel immense warmth.

Between friends often contact, encounter things someone to help.

Lovers often contact each other, love will be sweet as honey.

May you be a happy person, someone to love, someone to help.

May you be a warm person, to love, to give.

In the people who care, often contact, warm and beautiful all belong to you!