Loneliness is a person's clear joy

I was not born to be an actor, so why should I accompany you to act?

It's not before, it's not now, and it's not after.

How to say, is your business, how to do, is my business, has nothing to do with you.

The pleasure to find their own, pain to bear their own, the demons to overcome their own, want something to fight for themselves. After all, there are many things that no one else can help you with, and some things that you have to experience for yourself to have a taste, not to mention how many people are genuinely willing to help you.

Many times, we are chasing other people's footsteps, but we forget our original appearance. It is not how good others are, nor how bad we are. It's just that we're all too blind, and we accidentally lose that excellent and unique self in the sea of people.

01. People can only be themselves when they are alone

In most people's opinion, loneliness is often closely related to being out of touch and weirdly withdrawn. However, I don't think so.

In my opinion, a person who loves to be alone is not incapable of getting along with others, he just doesn't like to play the game. After all, each of us is unique, we are the protagonist of our own lives, why should we always be the supporting role of others and play with others?

The time spent alone should be cherished. After all, what we lack is not the world's hustle and bustle, on the contrary, what we lack is just the time to be alone.

Let the world be quiet, empty your head a bit, go to the heart to experience, and feel the time belongs to their own. To do with the deepest communication with the most real self, to accompany the most vulnerable self, to find that hidden in the "deep sea" of the self. Cherish it, there is not much time to be alone.

We often show the best side of ourselves in front of people, but the most real self is hidden deep. We even forget to be there for the self that lives under the cloak of invisibility.

I like to spend time alone, not intentionally out of the group, but alone is happy, bringing me the feeling that no one else can give, and in the group, living can not get the harvest.

When you are alone, you can see your true self, find your direction better, seek what belongs to you along it, chase the light in your heart, and become a better version of yourself.

02. Non-pastoralism is not the way to be, and non-tranquility is not the way to go

We can all become a better version of ourselves, only some outside ideas blocked our pace of progress. Originally we had a lot of time and energy to do what we like, but because it is difficult to refuse the temptation of the outside world and put it off again and again, or even give up.

Have you ever thought: in this world, how many people want you to have a good life?

When you think about it, there aren't many.

The majority of the people in this world want you to have a bad life and sincerely hope that you have a good life are also a lot of people, however, who hope that you have a better life than they are few and far between. After all, they just hope that you can live well, but not better than them.

In that case, why do we spend too much time on ineffective socializing? You are not good because you are afraid of being alone, and you are afraid of being alone is only afraid of other people's gossip, or you have been used to living in a group, suddenly become a person will be at a loss, do not know what they want to do.

Being alone is not scary, what's scary is that you don't dare to be alone. People who have never been alone don't know the benefits of being alone, which is a great regret in life.

When you try to be alone, you will slowly find that the time you spend alone turns out to be so beautiful. We can't do "the hut in the human realm, and no car and horse noise. Ask the gentleman what can be. The heart is far away from the place of the realm, but can occasionally find a quiet place to meditate and think, to help itself out of the confusion of the situation.

When we are alone, it is easier to discover our unique selves, to better see the world, recognize reality, and do well for ourselves.

In solitude, we can find our direction, set our ambition, work hard and go all out to pursue our poetry and faraway places.

03. Solitude is a person's carnival, carnival is a group of people's solitude

Loneliness is a compulsory course in life, and everyone will experience it, but sooner or later. There is no need to force others to be the same as me, and there is no need to turn myself into others, life is my own, and of course, I have to live my life in the way I like.

As Mr. Yang Jiang said: "We had been so eager for the waves of fate, only to find out in the end: the most beautiful scenery of life is the inner calmness and calmness ...... We had been so looking forward to the recognition of the outside world, only to know in the end: the world is its own, and has nothing to do with others! "

A person who is alone and a maverick has no sense of loneliness. A truly lonely person is especially afraid of being told that he is lonely, and thus behaves in a particularly agreeable and sociable manner. But instead of covering up his loneliness, this reveals his inner loneliness.

Most people think that loneliness is the helplessness of not being able to get along with others, but I think loneliness is a kind of strength, the ability to overcome loneliness, and the motivation to help oneself to succeed.

Fall in love with loneliness and enjoy it. Let us keep our original hearts in the noisy and noisy world, listen to our hearts, and find our happiness in solitude.