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Ladies, Why rush into Marriage?

Why It’s Okay to Take Your Time Before Marriage

By Emily Chan - Life and love sharingPublished 14 days ago 2 min read
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Ladies, Why rush into Marriage?
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Do you stress over marriage when you are 30s?

In a world where people often stress over marriage, it’s good to know that not getting married isn’t a big problem. But picking the wrong person to marry? That can lead to a lifetime of trouble.

Sometimes, people get too involved in other people’s marriage business, even if those people don’t care about their opinions. It’s kind of sweet to see them care, but really, it’s not their concern.

When it comes to marriage, it’s pretty simple: if you like someone, go ahead and marry them. If it doesn’t feel right, don’t be afraid to break it off.

Why make life complicated with unnecessary worries?

A girl’s standards should match her situation. It’s not about asking for the impossible; it’s about finding someone who fits well with what she wants and likes. There’s no need for punishment for having standards.

Being scared about getting married late, especially around 30, is common. But waiting for the right person is more about self-respect than just giving in to societal pressure.

Marrying just because you’re getting older usually leads to unhappiness.

Think of love in your 20s like a game of musical chairs. Everyone’s having fun, but as you hit 30, the music stops. You don’t want to end up sitting next to someone you don’t love just because it’s convenient. Marrying out of desperation, even when you’re older, won’t make you happy.

My friend’s story shows why picking the right partner matters. She married someone who didn’t match her, and it made her unhappy. Different personalities and lifestyles created problems they couldn’t ignore.

Love in our lives is special, and spending a lifetime with the wrong person feels like a waste.

The right partner should make time enjoyable, not make you feel uneasy.

There’s no magic age to get married; it’s about being emotionally ready. Whether you’re in your 30s or 40s, focus on having a good relationship instead of worrying about what others think.

If being married makes you more unhappy than being single, why rush into it?

Know what you like and don’t settle for less. If you want a caring partner, find someone who gets you. Relationships take work, so don’t think you can handle anything.

In short, take your time. There’s no rush to get married. True love can happen at any age, and it’s worth waiting for the right person instead of settling for what society expects.

Ladies! No rush! You can be happy single until you meet your true love!

Thank you for reading!

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Emily Chan - Life and love sharing

Blog Writer/Storyteller/Write stores and short srories.I am a writer who specializes in love,relationships and life sharing

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