Images of Me
Toxic Narcissism
Dad, Image is all that matters to you
And how other people’s accomplishments, success and looks
Reflect on you; and make you look important by association
Because you have really done nothing in your own life.
Your familial and toxic narcissism made you rush into two marriages
Based on physical attraction alone and how
These women reflected you to the world
And beautiful woman can be so vulnerable.
So you never took time to get to know either one
But damn, you did know how to zero in
On their insecurities so that you could charm, woo and win them over
Making them think you were capable of love
But you don't know how to love
And what you offer is not love.
That’s narcissism
Toxic narcissism
“You need to lose weight.” “You look like hell.”
“You are embarrassing me.””Put some damn makeup on.”
And your favorite insult of all was
"You can just go to hell."
How many times have you told me this?
How many times did I hear you say that to your wife?
Words my mother and I heard over and over throughout the years.
Constantly belittleed
Never a compliment,
Never any thanks
You pushed away any attempt to get a hug
There never any affection coming from you
Never any appreciation
Just lots of cold, cold, cold lies and disapproval
All from a man who never accomplished anything his entire life
Except to learn how to piggyback onto the successful lives of others
You know you are not good enough for yourself
How could you be good for anyone else?
You don't know how to love
And what you offer is not love.
That’s narcissism
Toxic narcissism
We never truly mattered to you
You have always let me know I had no value or worth to you
Unless I was opening my wallet
To cover your tabs or bills for you and Mother
Because the overdrafts from the bank were filling your mailbox daily
Everything has a price for you
You always made it clear, Mom was a paycheck for you
Enabling you to live a lifestyle
Your lack of ability, ambition and intelligence
prevent you from achieving
I can't help but remember
The last thing you said to me when I was trying to explain how I was hurt...
"You can just go to hell.”
So to that, Daddy, I say, "Great, we’ll do lunch, See you there."
- Julie O'Hara
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