I Am Marriage

I am marriage.

I am many things to many people.

My definition has changed as decades past,

And it seems today I rarely last.

Many people say good-bye,

Before their vows, “until we die…”

To see a love like yours survive,

Gives hope to all and keeps me alive.

I have seen it all though the years,

Blooming love, new life appears.

Joy, tenderness, and elation,

The hope, the dreams, the anticipation…

As newness ebbs and life sets in,

Struggles are there, again and again.

The ups and downs and constant motion,

So much so, it’s like the ocean.

Injuries heal and illnesses pass,

Memories are made in your looking glass.

Good times come and bad times too,

How you focus is up to you.

Children, work, financial burdens…

At times, there’s just no herdin’,

The overwhelming highs and lows

That seem to keep you on your toes.

I’ve seen with you, compassion and caring,

Simple things, is that so daring?

Forgiveness and kindness, loving compromise

These are qualities of no small size.

To give of yourself in so many ways,

Just to see a smile, singing of praise.

Effort and time, it takes devotion.

You two exemplify this with such emotion.

I smile upon you, 60 years of commitment.

Not to mention, 60 plus years of love to go with it.

Inspiration to all, is what you’ve been,

Impacting the lives of your family and friends.