There is a regret, called I could have

Life is rarely complete, the existence of regrets is the existence of, say more regrets will not help.

Rather than drowning in regrets, it is better to take the first step bravely.

Do people, only to put down regrets, can come out from the past, otherwise, continue to entangle the harm only themselves.

No matter how yesterday, when the past has become the past, life always has to look forward.

1、Face up to your regrets, face up to yourself

People live a life, there will inevitably be regrets.

Those who could have done but did not make things, both have become regrets, have become the past, and continue to waste energy can not be undone, rather than learn to face the regrets, as a warning to not repeat the same mistakes.

Wrong once is nothing, the important thing is not to make the same mistake again and again.

Some people attend class reunions and see that the goddess is still beautiful, thinking that this can be used to fulfill a long-held wish, but did not think that if they are married or have a girlfriend, they should not have such thoughts, or it will only increase a regret in vain.

When I was young, I thought I could make up for my past regrets by getting back together with my first love, but the gap brought about by time is not closed by love alone, such as "far away from the fragrance and smell", it is difficult to cherish it as before, and only then will I think of the "ex-girlfriend". The first thing that you can do is to give up the relationship because of your first love.

But forgetting that you can't always get in the stir, as long as one day did not let go of the past regret, will always want to make up for the regret, think they can make up, but in fact, they have more regrets, living worse.

Instead of thinking about making up for past regrets, it is better to reconcile with the past, let yourself go, and start over.

They regret to know themselves, find their shortcomings, and make timely adjustments to achieve a better version of themselves.

2、Get out of regrets and live your own life

British writer Rachel Joyce once wrote in her novel "A Man's Pilgrimage": "We all have a past, we all have regrets, hope that something was done or not done."

But what's done is done, and no amount of talk of regret can change the past.

If you want to dwell on the fantasy of the past, you will only keep yourself trapped in your imagination, imprisoned in the past, unable to start over.

Many times, we think we can't let go of our regrets in our own business, but we ignore the impact of our regrets on those around us.

You can't let go of your regrets and get stuck in them, hurting yourself and hurting the people around you who love you.

Therefore, instead of living in the past, it is better to get out of the regret, and bravely make changes, so that you have a new beginning.

3、Let go of regrets and become a better version of yourself

When regrets have been caused, and can not change the past, why not learn to accept the reality?

Although regret is a testimony of loss, it is undeniable that it is because of regret, to recognize the problems that exist themselves.

Early detection of the problem, to make timely adjustments, so that they have a breakthrough, and not repeat the mistake.

Sometimes, with a different perspective on regret, you will find that life has regrets to be true.

After all, which can be everything as it should be, even in the rebirth of the novel, there will inevitably be sudden accidents that create new regrets.

There is time to dwell on the regrets, why not face them, accept them, let them go, and become a better version of yourself?

Many times, you think you can't let go, but only temporary, as long as the courage to take the first step, nothing is unchangeable.

The regrets that you thought you couldn't live with will eventually become a corner of your memory, worn away by time, and become an ordinary part of your tedious life.

If things don't work out the way you want them to, believe that there is another plan.

Even if it's a regret, it could be a stepping stone to better things.