"It's all for your good", how many people are blocking the way forward

The former mostly comes from the love of parents for their children, because they do not want them to take a detour, they take it upon themselves to play the name of "for your good", arranging the road they want to take in the future.

It is sincere and well-intentioned, but not necessarily what the child wants.

The latter said to be concerned, but, in the name of "for your good" demeaning, open-mouthed "you ...... bad, should ...... "The latter is a good way to get a sense of superiority by belittling others to elevate themselves and get "I am better than you".

Instead of caring, it is better to say that you are showing off yourself and belittling others.

No matter which way you look at it, "good for you" is not good after all, the former "good" is dictatorial, and the latter "good" is false.

Therefore, do not easily be "for your own good" confused, to learn to distinguish what is really for your good, to find the road they want to take.

1, "I'm doing this for your good"

When I was young, I took "for your own good" as a concern, but when I grew up I realized that it was a kind of bondage, a dictatorship in the name of love, forcing the "victim" to suppress what was in his mind and take the path that was arranged.

I once heard a story.

There is a girl who loves photography and was planning to enroll in a related major after the university entrance exam, which was unanimously opposed by her parents, who think it is difficult to find a job in its related profession, so in the name of "for your good" forced the girl to choose the accounting profession.

Four years passed, the girl graduated, worked in a company in finance, after work to rekindle the hobby of photography, plans to take classes for the rest of the time to learn, but unexpectedly opposed by her parents, think she should save more money for future marriage plans.

At this point, she was pushed to a critical point and had the idea that she didn't want to live. She was afraid that if she continued to listen to her parents, she would be manipulated and have no life.

Fortunately, she finally came to her senses and chose to communicate with her parents and take the path she wanted to take.

Life is not too long, not too short.

Instead of letting yourself live in the bondage of "for your good", it is better to break free and bravely be yourself.

The fact is that you will not be embarrassed to refuse and compromise, but learn to bravely say no to the "for your own good" concern and express your true thoughts.

Other people's mouths are "for your good", if you do not want it, then good is also useless.

2, "if not for your good, I don't care about you"

They say "for your good", but excessive interference, but easily becomes a problem.

Some people are playing "for your own good" in the name of taking advantage, seemingly for your good, but behind the scenes is to benefit in the calculation of you;

Some people are preaching in the name of "for your good", out of genuine good, but the wrong way to make people feel anxious.

Some people are concerned in the name of "for your good", seemingly full of concern, but actually to meet the selfish prying.

One mouth is saying "for your good", but the truth is that sincere, fake have, say is concerned, but will make people feel depressed.

The outsiders do not know the truth, the authorities are deeply disturbed by it.

If the brain cramps to accept such "for your good", then the consequences will be unimaginable: turning against each other is not good, the most important thing is that the "for your good".

The most fearful thing is that "for your good" is obvious harm, but the surface of concern is to cover up the truth so that the uninformed think that the other party helped them a lot.

But do not think, those who say good "for your good", if you can not make yourself feel happy, happy, and how can be considered real for your good?

The fact is that you will be able to get a lot more than just a few of these.

A's honey, B's arsenic.

The real "for your good", is not self-righteous good, but others need the good.

3、Break free from bondage, brave to be yourself

People live a life, rather than let themselves live in the "for your own good" bondage, rather than break free from it, to do what they want to do.

There is no need to force yourself to accept because of others' "for your good", sometimes your concessions, waiting for others will only be an inch, so that the bondage further, so that the preaching high so that the false is covered up ...... finally, the injury is ultimately their own.

So, no matter what others say, as long as it is not the heart's desire, there is no need to condemn yourself to compromise.

The person, who loves you, is more important than anything else.

The other people's "for your good", sounding good is for your good, but the reality is with the subjective sense of concern, think they are helping people, but do not know that for others is a kind of trouble.

The fact is that you will not be able to get rid of your pain and suffering, but rather break free and do what you want to do in the future, take the road you want to take, and live your own life.