The greatest skill of a man is to be reliable

A person's loyal heart, far more than the clever shake out.

I met a lot of smart people, and it really helped.

However, after cooperation, I found that "too smart" people always want to put their own interests above everything else, and it is difficult to work together for a long time.

Now looking back, cooperation still needs to find the right people.

Whether you're working with someone or making friends with someone (both boyfriend and girlfriend), being honest and trustworthy is very important to achieving your goals.

For the feelings between people, it is more important.

Because, you know, nothing surprises you.

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Do things with the right people, smart people can only talk

Now a lot of people, together the most talk about the topic, is that we are very "chat."

In fact, a long time to find, very "chat", just a kind of psychological satisfaction, and reliable to give both sides a sense of security.

When a reliable person, promise you things, he has a grasp in the heart, this thing how to do;

A colleague, subordinate, friend, or client who wants to talk about something is likely to promise you things that they don't.

He didn't even think about finding your mental needs and meeting them with words.

Because he is smart, so there is always a way to let you think he tried his best, in fact, he did not even think about it, he did not even use the heart, just air in the mouth.

Reliable people, he will understand each other's difficulties.

Then, from their own point of view to do as much as possible for you, although there may be limitations, there may be differences of opinion, may not be unified for a period of time, may also be refused.

But it's efficient, it's intentional, it's the foundation of sincerity and trust.

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A person's loyal heart, far more than the clever shake out

Everyone can come up with a skill that goes beyond anyone else's.

Like the IQ level, the gap between people is not big, even if the individual IQ is outstanding, if the EQ problem, will be greatly discounted.

Especially in the current era of developed information, a lot of information spread speed across regions and groups, instant can be spread to all corners of the world, more can search for any information you want.

Smart people know a lot, reliable people do not necessarily understand less.

In the current era of knowledge explosion, the speed of information acquisition is faster than ever before, and over time, many people naturally become smarter.

From the whole society, a smart person must have good ability, but not necessarily a reliable person, that is, the character is not guaranteed.

A reliable man is not necessarily a wise man.

But it must be in their own ability, is a competent person, honest person.

In real life, people like smart people, it's normal psychology.

People can keep in touch. However, they may not be willing to have a heart-to-heart relationship with each other, mainly because the variables are too large.

And good character, reliable people, naturally there will be reliable people to get along with them.

In other words, we emphasize loyalty over competence in the enterprise.

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Ability can be cultivated, character is not easy to change

For example, some people in cooperation with you, tail clip tight;

If we don't cooperate, all kinds of nasty tactics will be used.

Because smart, put on a "good" "real" coat, let a person feel that this person is very real.

But it hurts the right people too much.

Most of them are not good at words, will only get along with people, suffer losses, the worst to speak in person.

Results grievance by big, tears pharynx to the stomach, dry, or a piece of sunshine.

In today's society, having the right kind of person is a valuable resource.

If they can meet in every field of society is a good thing in the enterprise, of course, we should cherish it.

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They have been reliable, and gradually there will be a lot of reliable friends

The deepest experience in these years is that a reliable person to introduce you to friends, cooperation is good character, reliable people.

An unreliable person who introduces you to a friend or colleague can also meet a reliable one, but you need to have an eye for it, otherwise it's a lottery.

We do things to choose reliable, is to choose a good quality.

Once you handle things properly, you may be temporarily hurt.

But you can also test your friends and partners, weed out the least reliable ones, and you'll end up with a sense of integrity around you.

This group of positive Qi can make each other out of danger, so that you go forward with no mutual suspicion, only all the wisdom superposed together, must be the best outcome of 1+1>2.

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~This is Antoine, and I hope you find pleasure in each of my articles~