Smart people encounter problems, reflecting on themselves

There is a couple, who married for many years and has no children.

The husband suspected that the wife's body has problems, thinking of ways to buy treatment of drugs for his wife to eat, which is not lack of prescriptions, but never suspected that the problem is not in their own body.

Until the wife could not bear to question, the two couples went to the hospital together to do a checkup, the husband found that the problem was in his own body.

There is no shortage of similar things in life, most people encounter problems, first of all, not in their bodies to find the cause, but the habit of pushing the problem to others.

Very often, not realizing the problem is the biggest problem.

Simply shirking responsibility will only allow the problem to remain.

Be a human being, learn to face the problem, reflect on yourself, improve yourself, and strive for the achievement of a better you.

1、More thinking, more questions, and more self-reflection

"Across the forest side into a peak, far and near the height of different."

From different angles to see the problem has different insights, look at others and still difficult to be objective, let alone look at themselves, inevitably with a few beautifications, think they do not have any problems, but do not know that there is no problem is a problem.

Instead of thinking of yourself as too good or too bad, it is better to think from an objective point of view, try to understand yourself from the mouth of others, and seriously examine their shortcomings, rather than encounter problems, the first thought is to find the cause in others.

It is important to know that others may have problems, but they do not have, always habitually put the blame on others, and over time they will be "covered" eyes, and can not see the problems of their existence.

Seemingly help themselves to shirk their responsibilities, but in fact, they are in harm's way, a single escape will only exacerbate the seriousness of the problem.

Therefore, in the face of problems, we must learn to take responsibility, think more, ask more questions, introspect, while being aware of the problem, correct their shortcomings, and slowly transform into a better version of ourselves.

Let the problem is no longer a problem, but help to forge a better one.

Only by discovering problems can we solve them.

Only by discovering deficiencies can we correct them.

Only continuous self-reflection, to achieve better.

2、Be strict with yourself and be lenient with others

Most people encounter problems, always habitually blame others, looking for reasons in others, but have not thought about the occurrence of a thing must have many reasons.

If you always focus on others, it seems narrow-minded, and over time becomes a habit, only focusing on others, and having no time to take care of yourself invariably affects your life direction.

Instead of focusing on other people's problems all day long, it is better to spend more time on yourself, reflecting on your shortcomings, and correcting them.

Life in the world has its way of living, we have no right to control others, and can only control ourselves.

Therefore, when you encounter problems, the first thing you should think of is to find the cause in yourself, rather than blame others.

Understand that you can be strict with yourself and use higher standards to demand yourself, but you should be more tolerant of others and give them time to correct themselves.

There is no innate evil but was forced to jump to the wall of the dog.

Be a person, one more enemy, rather than one more friend.

There is no need to target others, there is time better spent on improving themselves. Only if you become better, you can live better.

Live, only strict to discipline yourself and treat others with generosity, live more open-minded, and let yourself become better.

3.

As the ancients said, "If you can't do something, ask yourself for help".

Problems, do not blame God but learn to find the reasons for themselves.

Find the reason for yourself, to solve the problem.

Only when you find your shortcomings, you can have room for progress.

Life is not at rest, but in the continuous improvement of self, by efforts to correct all the shortcomings.

All the problems once encountered are just the test of living, only to let the self keep transforming and achieving better.

Only some people can not stand the test, either fall or can not stand up.

So, there are problems to change, and even harder to hold on to, through everything will become better.

Living is a discipline, there is still a lot to learn, more thinking, more questions, and more self-reflection, to constantly improve themselves.

The road is still long, we take our time, even if you fall, don't be afraid to pat off the dust, stand up and start again, everything will slowly become better.