Show me your friends and I’ll show you your future… T D Jakes

In the natural world, there is a phenomenon called symbiosis, where two species rely on each other for survival. This same principle can be applied to human relationships, where the people we spend time with can have a profound effect on our lives. As the wise saying goes, “Show me your friends and I’ll show you your future.”

Just as in nature, the people we surround ourselves with can shape our thoughts, beliefs, and behaviors. They can inspire us to reach our goals, or hold us back from achieving our full potential. It’s important to choose our companions wisely, as they can greatly impact our journey through life.

In the animal kingdom, symbiotic relationships can be seen in species such as the oxpecker and the rhinoceros. The oxpecker feeds on ticks and parasites that inhabit the rhino’s skin, while the rhino provides protection and a source of food for the bird. Similarly, human relationships can provide mutual benefits, but it’s important to ensure that these relationships are healthy and beneficial to both parties.

Don’t forget the old adage, “Fools surround themselves with fools.” When we surround ourselves with individuals who do not share our values or who do not inspire us to be our best selves, we risk limiting our potential and falling into negative patterns of behavior.

In the struggle for personal success, we must surround ourselves with individuals who share our vision and who are committed to creating a better world. We must seek out those who inspire us to be better, who challenge us to think critically, and who hold us accountable to our highest ideals.

Just as we must be vigilant about the quality of our own character, we must also be mindful of the character of those around us. By surrounding ourselves with positive influences and like-minded individuals, we can create a powerful force for change and make progress towards our dreams and ambitions.

Let us surround ourselves with those who uplift and inspire us, and who share our commitment to creating a better world for all. Together, we can achieve greatness and build a brighter future for generations to come.

Keep the right company — 𝑪𝒐𝒎𝒑𝒂𝒏𝒚 𝒊𝒔 𝑬𝑵𝑬𝑹𝑮𝒀 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝑬𝑵𝑬𝑹𝑮𝒀 𝒊𝒔 𝒄𝒐𝒏𝒕𝒂𝒈𝒊𝒐𝒖𝒔. Find mentors and leaders who can inspire and guide your journey of achievement. If you can’t find them in the flesh, find them in books — never stop looking to improve on your own greatness.

No matter what your past you can always change course to a better future. Your life is like a journey up a river in a boat. If you spend your time looking at the wake the boat has made, you are focusing on what has been and gone and is unchangeable. Instead, you should be at the wheel facing forward and changing direction to success! Don’t let your past define your future.

Goldfish grow to the size that is sustainable to its environment. Don’t let yourself stagnate in a shallow pond full of negative no-hopers. Find a lake where you can learn from successful people who will expand your mind and your possibilities, and allow you to grow and grow.

How to guide yourself to Greatness…

One of the most important things we can do for ourselves is to stay focused on our own self-development. When we’re committed to our own growth, we’re less likely to get sidetracked by the negative voices around us. Sure, there may be people who try to bring us down or tell us we can’t succeed, but when we’re constantly striving to improve ourselves, we have the tools to rise above the negativity, and stay on track. So let’s commit to our own self-improvement and create a life we’re truly proud of!

Pay now and play later, is one of the most crucial success strategies. That means putting in the work and making the sacrifices today so that we can enjoy the rewards tomorrow. Our future is determined by the actions we take right now, in this moment. So let’s focus on taking consistent action towards our goals and dreams, and create the future we desire. Remember, your tomorrow starts today!

It’s the small, seemingly insignificant moments that shape our lives. Embrace the mundane, the everyday routine, and use it as an opportunity to grow and improve. It’s in these moments where we have the power to create our own destiny. To reach where you want to go, you must do what you don’t want to do. Sometimes, the tasks we dread the most are the very things we need to do in order to achieve our goals. So, embrace the discomfort, push through the resistance, and keep your focus on the prize. Your success is waiting for you on the other side of those difficult tasks.

Personally, I’m a great believer in doing the tuff stuff first thing in the morning. That way, the rest of your day will just get better and better.

So, remember to choose your companions wisely. Surround yourself with people who inspire you to be your best self, and who support you in achieving your goals. With the right friends by your side, you can navigate the challenges of life with greater ease and achieve great success.

Chris Jones

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