Love Yourself

It’s okay to not know, it’s okay to question, it’s even okay to doubt. As long as you don’t let anything stop you from what you want, you can receive everything you desire.

Some individuals have issues with trusting in themselves; a huge reason for this may be because the people around them are doubting them. If we as a collective could cut out all the negative noise we’re all used to hearing, we could most likely elevate as a whole. When people make fun of who you actually are it’s either because they don’t like themselves or it’s because they simply don’t align with your purpose in life.

I know a lot of you may not believe in destiny or fate, but I’m here to say you can definitely create your fate/ destiny. I know things seem out of reach or out of control, but that’s the point. We’re all supposed to get out of this mindset of poverty and conditional love. I’m starting to realize most people do something nice for someone just so they could say they’ve done something. In all reality we’re put here to give freely, we’re here to be tested on how much love we give and how much pain and disappointment we can take. The illusion of “succeeding” is corrupting the minds of our people. I realize success comes when you’re truly happy without it.

Some of you may not know how to begin to be happy; I know it can be difficult a lot of the time, but if you practice positive speaking, if you say only nice and kind things to yourself and others life will be much easier and brighter for you. There are a lot of human beings that want to be angry. Consciously they’re not aware of this, but their subconscious is so used to drama that now that’s the only thing in some people’s experience. You may even ask “how do I get out of drama?” Well, first you would have to cut off all the poisonous people in your life. All the people who make you stressed, all the people who make you feel less than, and all the people who lie to you. If you continue to bring toxic people into your life nothing will get better. I know some people want to help their friends and family, but you can’t help them without helping yourself first and they definitely can’t help you. Once you’re alone and you have removed all of the terrible and unhealthy people from your life, start talking to yourself. Have conversations about what you want, meditate, write down your goal and accomplishments, and simply find reasons to love yourself again.

Most of the time people have a hard time loving themselves because of another person who didn’t love them. People may say they love you, but that doesn’t mean it’s true. People will give you fake compliments, they’ll give you fake smiles and fake love; while also hating you, talking about you behind your back and maybe even worse. Some people aren’t capable of love because they’ve never received it before you. If you get involved with someone who is emotionally available you can’t expect them to be anything different. People always end up changing for themselves, it’s very rare that someone would change for someone else.

If you’ve gotten hurt by someone, forgive them. Forgive them so you can move on, and heal. When you forgive someone it is never for the other person, it’s always for you. If you continue to hold grudges and rage towards anything you’ll end up attracting more of what you don’t want. Try to live your life in love with yourself, live your life inventing, and reinventing yourself. Have fun with the time you have on this beautiful Earth because we’re here to feel appreciated and to be appreciative.