Life, no advance or retreat

Something old can be replaced with a new one, then if people are stagnant and how?

If people live only want to lie flat, do not want to struggle; only want to get by, do not want to work hard to improve; only want to live in the past, do not want to keep up with the times ...... that kind of life and salted fish how different.

A person has the opportunity to be salted fish okay, the most fear is not to know "in and out" of life, and finally will be tragically eliminated by society.

At that time to regret it is too late. Instead of letting yourself live more and more down, it is better to update yourself, so that you have enough ability to keep pace with the times.

1. Keep learning

The teacher said, "You can play as much as you want when you get into high school," but when you get to high school, you are faced with more homework and heavier study pressure than ever before.

Later, when the university entrance examination, the teacher said again: "the university entrance examination can enjoy playing," but to the university to learn a lot more, only care about having fun is easy to lose the original has.

People live where there is no need to learn, even if the work also has a lot to learn things, only care about having fun, and do not know how to move forward and backward, which will only make their lives go downhill.

There is time to indulge yourself in eating, drinking, and playing, rather than spend time on learning, with a person's silent efforts of the time, to open up the gap between themselves and their peers.

Whenever possible, only what you have learned is your own.

There is no shortage of people who want to take shortcuts in modern society, thinking that they can rely on others to mix up but forget that others can give you things that can also be taken back.

Instead of relying on others, it is better to rely on yourself.

People live a life, who may betray you, only you will not betray yourself, only their own through hard work to learn to get, only really belong to their own.

Therefore, learning is the shortcut of life, only hard learning, to achieve a better self.

Should be the old saying: "Live to learn."

A person can become the master of his own life only if he keeps learning and making himself better and has the qualification to choose his life path.

2. Renew your circle

When I was young, I thought my friends would always be together, but when I grew up, I realized that "parting" is a necessary part of life.

In every stage of life, some people come, some people will go, once thought together forever, but finally just a childhood dream.

Time is pulling away from each other, even if there is a time to reunite, but in the end, the further away.

A group of people gathered together to form a circle, the circle and the circle have their threshold, not to say into it can enter.

Like the circle of luxury wives, not to say that carrying a few hundred thousand brand-name bags, wearing an expensive dress can be mixed in, sometimes desperately squeezed into the circle does not belong to their own, will only be a joke in the eyes of others.

So, not suitable for their circle, forced to go in will only be hard on themselves, rather than find the right circle for themselves.

There was a gathering with junior high school classmates, someone dropped out of school early to work, someone has married and had children, and someone just graduated from college ...... at the beginning of the topic of conversation is talking about what happened in junior high school, and then each talk about their own, not to say a piece of, say not a few words to talk about.

As you grow older and have different experiences, the circle you stay in will be updated, each stage has its circle, the circle of learning, the circle of work, the circle of parenting ...... because of the common needs get together.

The school bully of the dormitory was not born to be a school bully, but driven by each other, learning hard to achieve today's self.

Many times, only stay in the right circle, with people who are better than yourself, to achieve a better self.

3. Keeping up with the times

It used to be said that teachers are iron rice bowls, but nowadays, there is no iron rice bowl, not hard enough will be eliminated sooner or later.

To know that the times are advancing, the needs are changing, the old set does not necessarily still work, want to go to the end of a road, afraid that the last way to go is the end of the road.

Rather than let themselves in the comfort of not seeking advancement, rather than forcing themselves to try to keep pace with the times.

Whether it is ideas, skills, or others, can not keep up with the times, will only be miserable eliminated.

There are times when you have to do your best to not be powerless in life.

Do people live passively, it is better to take the initiative, keep pace with the times, break through yesterday's self, and achieve better today.

It's never too late to make progress, no matter what time it is.

Only by constantly breaking through with yourself can you achieve a better version of yourself.

Keep up with the times, walk in front of the times, and live a good life of your own.