Life is unpredictable but every day

In the face of life's impermanence, we must learn to be calm, respond to all changes, and properly handle unexpected accidents.

1. Life is unpredictable, cherish what you have

How long a person can live, no one can be 100% sure, the only thing that can be determined is what you have now.

Unfortunately, few people can cherish what they have now, and always can't help but focus on what they can't get, to chase the illusory desire.

What appears to be an upward climb up the ladder is a hidden trap waiting for the opportunity to deliver a fatal blow.

Many times, the reason why the cheater can cheat successfully is human greed, which is used as bait to set a trap and evoke desire.

Knowing full well that there is no such thing as luck, but still with a fluke, thinking that they can be an exception.

Unbeknownst to me, most of the so-called lucky ones are backed by persistent efforts and are not obtained lightly.

Between father/mother and son/daughter, think there is still time, but the time has begun to count down, can be together for the time, is a day less than a day.

It's good to talk and wait, but plans can't catch up with change, and I'm afraid that what I'll end up waiting for is regret, and then I'm afraid it's too late to regret.

For the impermanence of life, instead of continuing to let yourself go, you should learn to cherish the people in front of you, and grasp every second together.

2. Emotions are unpredictable, it is better to block than to remove

The young and frivolous like a cannonball a little on the explosion, grow older and slowly learn to control emotions, no longer as offensive as in the past, that is a sign of maturity.

Only people who have personally experienced, understand that to eat how many times the loss to grow.

It's not that you don't understand how to control your emotions, you just don't have personal experience, and you can't empathize with them, so listen to the left ear and right ear and forget about it, until something happens to you, you understand how difficult it is to control your emotions.

Emotions are unpredictable, no matter how unblocked, improper operation will hurt themselves.

And a single indulgence of their emotions will make life a mess, it is difficult to find the previous state.

Therefore, in the face of emotional vagaries, rather than just "tolerate", it is better to vent, not just vent to the people around you, but to find new channels of venting, such as singing, playing games, sports, etc., as a way to control emotions.

There are no hurdles in life that can't be overcome, only people who can't figure it out.

The unpredictable emotions, seemingly terrible, find a way to always pass, just trapped in the bureau of the people "authorities" temporarily did not think through.

Although the control of emotions is a long process, as long as a patient, with a normal mind to treat, everything will slowly become better.

3、Gains and losses are unpredictable, their cycle

Live, is constantly gain and loss in the cycle, at first can not let go, and then slowly take it for granted.

Everything, everything will change over time, so that the so-called "can not" become "past".

Occasionally looking back there may still be a little pain, but a lot less than before, no longer feel "can not hold on, want to give up", but think "things in the past, they have to live well", learn to put the mind to see the gains and losses.

Not to be happy with things, not to be sad, from which to find the cause and effect of gains and losses.

Instead of spending time mourning the gains and losses, learn to grasp what you have now.

Even if you lose after getting, you can still have the memory of having been together, it is also a blessing.

To be a person, do not be too obsessed with gain and loss, learn to treat with a normal heart, stay the same in response to all changes, and find the enemy's strategy.

Gain and loss are life's impermanence, but also life's norm.

It may seem like an accident, but it is just every day.